“I want to challenge each of you to think of someone who needs to be told these words, ‘I love you and there’s nothing you can do about it.’ After you have told them, you can explain that this is what God says to each of us every day. Spread the good news.”
Excerpt from Rev. Denham’s sermon from August 5, 2012
Reverend Bill Denham was appointed to St. Luke’s UMC in June of 2012 and served as Pastor of Caring for eight years. He loved the staff and church family well, especially in times of sickness, hospitalization, loss and grief. He was also a part of our celebrations of life, showing up at the hospitals for many births and marrying many young couples. He famously made over 87,600 birthday calls in his time at St. Luke’s. Although he did not preach often, Bill’s sermons always led us to the love of Christ and urged us to pass it along.
Son of a Baptist preacher, Bill was born and raised in Houston and was an alumnus of River Oaks Elementary, Lanier Junior High, and Lamar High School. He continued his education with a B.A. from the University of Texas. Following a stint in the business world, he received his Masters of Divinity from SMU Perkins School of Theology in 2004
Bill is survived by his beloved wife of 49 years, Laura, their adult children Will, Martha, and Jim, and their six “practically perfect” grandchildren.
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Mrs. Laura I love y’all so much I’m going to miss my Pastor Bill he was a good Pastor y’all are a good family. I love y’all… So much
We are so sorry for your loss Laura. We will forever cherish the time that we had with Brother Bill and you.
Love,
Will and Angela McCormick
Breanna and Anthony
I always cherished Bill’s birthday phone call. One year my birthday was the day after Sunday and I told him that he could wish me happy birthday then and that I was giving him a “dispensation” from calling me the next day. Of course, he called the next day anyway!! Bill was a one of a kind in the very best way and will be missed.
We are so grateful to have known and worked with Reverend Denham. He constantly encouraged us with words of wisdom and hilarity. Much love to you, Laura and the family. We miss him so. I wish we could have one more chat about Birmingham.
He was the sweetest man. He spoke at my Dad’s funeral and was so supportive after my father passed a few years back. I looked forward to his sweet birthday call every year💜💜
We absolutely loved Bill. He was the one that brought us closer to the church and made us smile every time we saw him. He helped us so much after we lost our twins and holds a special place in our lives. He was so happy to hear when we were pregnant again and came the the hospital the next day to meet our newest addition, Julianna. We had Bill baptize our daughter and he was so honored to do that for us. I am so heartbroken for the Denham family and will keep them in our prayers for peace and comfort.
When I learned the news of Bill’s passing, this is what I shared on my Facebook page:
When we moved to Houston nearly 12 years ago, belonging to a church was important to me. We started going to St. Luke’s UMC – Houston the same way many young married couples join churches, my parents were already members.
I remember my dad saying once, as members of a larger congregation, his goal was to have a relationship with the pastor who knew his name. My parents accomplished this in spades with church trips to Isreal/Egypt, movie groups, men’s life, mahjong, bible study and volunteering. We were doing none of that, but we attended Sunday services.
After S was born, I told Joe I was joining and we were setting a baptism date. He could join if he wanted, but it was his choice (this is part of a larger faith story you can talk to him about).
Flash forward a few years and we have found some of our people, but we are far from being fully integrated into a larger faith family. Then I ended up on bedrest in the hospital with M&A for a full month before they were born. St. Luke’s sent people to visit me every day. The Pastor in charge of this care was Rev. Bill Denham. He visited me every week. We prayed. He made me laugh. We talked. He knew me.
Earlier tonight, I learned that Pastor Bill passed away unexpectedly and I cannot stop crying.
He’s the one who called every member of the church on their birthdays. All 7,000+ thousand of us. Oh how I looked forward to those calls.
He’s the one that rejoiced the day the twins came home healthy after months of bedrest.
He is the one who called me every time a member was on bedrest with twins and said “Amanda….you need to go visit them and tell them it is going to be okay…”
He is the one who prayed with us at our home before we attended Joe’s mother’s funeral.
He was my pastor. We were in relationship with him. And while I know he is rejoicing today with our Lord, those of us left here are grieving the wonderful man we knew and feeling a deep loss.
Thank you Pastor Bill for making me feel connected. For caring for us so well. We’re all in now. While we may have tears in our eyes, we are also smiling remembering all the love you left with us.
Bill, always caledl me on my birthday and I will remember this always. I will sure miss his call!
We were so very saddened to learn of Reverend Denham’s passing recently. There was never a Sunday when he didn’t light up the room with his vibrantly bright and loving smile! So many wonderful and happy memories of him, but the following is probably a favorite:
One Sunday morning, I attended with my sister, who was visiting from out of town. We sang “Come Thou Fount of Every Blessings” as a closing hymn that day. We both looked up at Reverend Denham sitting near the pulpit, and he was moved to tears. My sister and I both started crying too, bc it is such a meaningful and beautiful hymn. Afterwards as we were leaving the service through our “regular exit,” we talked to him about it, and had a little chuckle about our heightened emotions. So, in his memory of what seemed to be one of his most beloved hymns, I leave the lyrics which certainly ring true:
“Oh, that day when freed from sinning
I shall see Thy lovely face
Clothed then in the blood washed linen
How I’ll sing Thy wondrous grace
Come, my Lord, no longer tarry
Take my ransomed soul away
Send Thine angels now to carry
Me to realms of endless day”
Rest In Peace, Reverend Denham. There’s no doubt in our minds that you are in paradise. We will see your beautiful face when we get there.
Love Always,
The Patterson family
Loved him. Miss him, his smile, laughter, wisdom & spirit. It was a privilege to work with Bill on the Alpha Marriage Course, to share lunch and recently coffee. Prayers & sympathy for family, especially Laura. My dad, Joe, passed in a similar sudden way. Since Friday, “Homeward Bound” has coursed through my memory like a river wending its way to the sea. Mallory & I listened to it sung by a mezzo-soprano: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2GRDGe4Q6I4 SLUMC choir sang it, featuring a bass: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5LZphhF3iAg&list=PLEDtBA634G74Ooem8pewfC4RkII0lRDfN&index=5 Again, Loved him. Miss him, his smile, laughter, wisdom & spirit.
I don’t use this often, but Bill Denham was a “Salt of the Earth” man and someone I always smiled when I ran into. Definitely a man of God and will truly be missed.
I was so sad to hear of Rev. Denham’s passing. During my high risk pregnancy, I was hospitalized for 4 months, and he visited me at least once a week, and made sure someone from the church visited nearly every day. He brought me so much comfort and joy during that uncertain and scary time. He held my hand and prayed with me more times than I can count. He shared in our joy on the day we baptized our twin girls. I’ll miss hearing his voice on my birthday, and I know St. Luke’s will miss his presence dearly.
We met Bill personally long before he came to SL through Laura and were elated when he came to join the staff here!
How can we say what Bill meant to us?
Phone calls on B’days? HIs wonderful voice singing carols at the Christmas Party? His warm greetings when you saw him and his goodbyes as you and all the others left the sanctuary? His warm wedding and memorial services? His prayers that always seemed like they spoke for us? Visiting while washing dishes after a Christmas party at their home near the church? Reunion get-togethers at SMU? All the precious moments being with him and watching him grace the halls of SL? His big smile and his warm personal way of dealing with everyone?
What will we remember most about him?
The pleasure of his company and the light that accompanied him and spread to us when we were in his company.
It was a joyous ride with him here! We are grateful!!!!!
Our love to Laura, his faithful partner in ministry and life, and their 3 children and their grandchildren – they will miss him most!
Judy & George
Reverend Denham was the epitome of light. His light shone brightly, and we all benefitted from his presence. He will be missed.
Melinda & John Stevenson & family
The light in the world dimmed a little when Bill Denham left it.
I was fortunate to hear one of Rev. Denham’s sermons and I will never forget it. It was on Father’s Day and he left such an impression, it brought me to tears. Ever since I always enjoyed going to communion in the chapel just because I wanted to be in his presence. I’ve kept all my birthday messages from him saved over the years, and even though I know I was one of many to receive a call on my birthday, they were always so thoughtful and I’d always think, wow, what a great guy. He was such a wonderful person with a kind and tender voice. I will miss him tremendously. My prayers for Laura and their family.
The sermon quote shared above about “I love you and there’s nothing you can do about it” reminded me of a touching conversation I had with Bill during my pastoral internship at St. Luke’s a few years ago. Bill was talking about the importance of preaching and how the words a pastor speaks have such a profound impact on other people. He noted that tragically, many people in our world don’t often hear messages of love… and many of those people are actually sitting in church pews on Sunday morning. Someone might have a job where they don’t feel appreciated. Others might have lost a beloved family member and feel lonely. Even others might wonder if anyone loves them at all.
“When I preach,” I remember Bill saying, “I always try recite this simple truth at least once in my sermon: ‘God loves you.’ I think we all need to hear that more.”
It is so inspiring to think about how so many people heard that message from Bill. He always shared the love of Christ with every sermon, conversation, phone call, or smile.
Reverend Denham baptized our oldest son, Nathan, in December 2015. We will always remember the sermon he gave that day. He was such a sweet and caring soul and will be greatly missed. Praying for the Denham family during this difficult time.
Reverend Bill was such a kind and welcoming face at St. Luke’s. He was the pastor welcoming and guiding us when we joined St. Luke’s. We looked forward to his booming voice wishing us a happy birthday and asking if we woke up with a chocolate cake for breakfast on our special day. His question soon turned into a birthday tradition for my children on their special day. We will miss him, but take comfort knowing he is with Jesus—welcoming others to Heaven.
It has already been said, but Rev. Denham’s birthday phone calls were the highlight of my day. I would let it go to voice mail on purpose so I could listen to it and share it with my family. Every year around Christmas time, I would give Rev. Denham a box of homemade fudge. Oh how he loved that fudge. He would try and convince me that whatever month it was currently was really “fudge month.” I lovingly made him a batch for his retirement. Rev. Denham always had a kind word and a warm hug for both me and my daughter. We will miss him very very much.
Kind. Genuine. Enthusiastic. Full of love. A disciple. I am grateful to have known a small part of Rev Bill and am better for that opportunity. May God’s love engulf and comfort you in this unexpectedly hard time.
Before Bill retired we saw him in our Pastoral Care office at Houston Methodist Hospital almost everyday. He cared for the SLUMC congregation so well. He was so kind to our admin who validated his parking each day. We missed him upon his retirement, but we will miss him even more now. May he rest in peace and rise in glory. Well done good and faithful servant!
I loved hearing that voice when I picked up his call on my birthday. That special, kind, southern voice with a touch of humor. What a terrific person. Words cannot express the sadness I feel but I am so thankful for knowing him. Thank you Bill for your birthday wishes and kindness. Thank you for sharing your husband, father and grandfather with us. He was just so downright special.
I am very fortunate to have known Rev, Bill.
He made me feel special. I loved the texts he would send me with pictures of his family.
Bill and Laura have deep love for all. His Birthday calls were wonderful.
I was there when it all began in his ministry, how I loved Bill and Laura. How blessed am I to have known you both. Au revoir mon Ami
Reverend was the most contagiously joyful man and servant of the Lord. He was special to Bob and me as he warmly met all of us as we left each Sunday. And he called everyone in the church on our birthday. He gave such loving and reassuring sermons. He had the most wonderful smile and and laugh. We will meet you later inHeaven with our Lord.
Rev. Denham provided pastoral care when we were recovering from Harvey. His phone calls were a gift from God. The world has lost a blessing. Thank you Lord for sharing Rev. Denham with us.
This leaves me heart broken. Bill and I spent many hours together on the road to Dallas to SMU and in Hawk 303. His smile and laughter would fill the room. His passion for ministry and his congregations were a powerful witness. Love and prayers to Laura and kids.
Our prayers go out to the Denham family for the loss of their husband, father and grandfather. During the illnesses of both of my parents – Dean and Beverly Robinson, Bill was very faithful to visit both my mom and dad to offer them comfort and care. For me and my brother Phil, Bill was very compassionate and energetic that always helped lift a sad situation into the joyful promise that both mom and dad would be in a better place when their suffering was past. No matter how hard things were, his cheerful smile, kind heart and words of encouragement were always meaningful for the moment we were in. Bill may you rest in peace.
Bill and I went to seminary together. He was always such an encourager and support for me and others. I remember him bringing a basket of pears during finals time with a sign. This will help you be “pre-peared” for your exams. Will miss his smile and loving spirit.
Laura, although I know where Bill is I am….. heartbroken for you. I remember the first time I met Bill, it was at the hospital in Tyler after Daddy had surgery to repair his broken foot. My parents introduced Bill as their minister and when Bill was leaving to go back to Grapeland, he offered to give me a ride with him so I could go back to my parents house there in Grapeland. Daddy had just been given pain medication and I remember him throwing his head back on the pillow when Bill offered me a ride and muttered something to the effect “there goes our church membership”. What a wonderful ride back to Grapeland as I told him I was so sorry that he could not get into Texas A&M and he told me the story of falling in love with you and missing you so badly when he was in the military before you married. I’ll never forget him saying that your letters began “My Dearest Darling Bill” and went on to say “Dear Occupant”. Oh how we laughed. I can remember how he told me so many times how much he adored and admired you on that car ride. The assist by Bill on my parents 50th wedding anniversary celebration in Grapeland and all you both did for Grapeland Methodist are unforgettable. I’m praying for strength and endurance for you and heart healing. You are so very loved sweet Laura.
Hello Denham Family – I’ve only been attending St Luke’s for about 18 months, but at this year’s Ash Wednesday service, Rev Bill painted the ashes on my forehead and said “from dust you came and to dust you shall return”. It’s a phrase we all know, but I’ve never heard it said more sincerely than it was by Rev Bill that afternoon! It was a moment that has really stuck with me. I am so sorry for your loss, but even my brief experience with Rev Bill made me know that he impacted many many people for Christ.
What a loss but how fortunate we all are that he was in our lives. I don’t believe I ever saw him without a smile on his face. He made you smile even if you didn’t really feel like it. He and Ron could keep going with silly (groan) puns for a long time. Everybody laughed. When Ron was in Hospice Bill was with me every day and he helped with Ron’s service. Life will be much sadder without his joyful presence.
Certainly our lives are all sadder today- the fun, the puns, the smiles and laughs are diminished. I don’t believe I ever saw him without a smile on his face. He also had a song in his heart and we often got to hear that. When Ron was in Houston Hospice Bill came every day and though it was a sad time I always felt better because he had been there. He and Linda Christians did Ron’s service – Ron wouldn’t have wanted it any other way. Bill and Laura were quite the team and I know it will be hard but she will still be that wonderful part of our lives .Hard to accept, hard to understand bur so much better for the fact that he was in our lives.
Words of wisdom that I received as a pastoral intern fresh out of seminary.
“They will not remember the sermons you preached, or how well you taught theology. They will remember the time you visited them in the hospital. They will remember how you were with them in the difficult times. They will remember how well you loved them.”
-Rev. Bill Denham
Thanks for the wonderful example of ministry to follow, I will see you again my friend. Until then, behold your great harvest!
One Sunday morning in January, 1987, I walked from my nearby apartment to visit Calder Baptist in Beaumont, invited by my now-wife Linda. Bill was the first person I saw, and, seeing me simultaneously, immediately altered his course by 90° to greet me. His warm and gracious welcome provided extreme contrast with the reception experienced a prior Sunday with another congregation, among whom I felt like the invisible man, suddenly, mysteriously incorporeal. Bill indelibly demonstrated for me in those brief moments of welcome, direction, and explanation a spirit congruent with that in the Matthew 25 passages… “I was a visitor, and you welcomed me, and went out of your way to so do!” Our Lord now welcomes Bill as a resident in eternity, and His peace rests upon him.
“CARING” sums up my thoughts about Bill. I met him at Perkins on the Dallas campus, and we have been friends ever since! He will be missed so much. Thank you Lord for the gift of Bill.
After a communion service he had officiated a few years ago – I do not remember the occasion – I talked with Bill, telling him that I had never been to such a service where I felt so much that I was being spoken to directly, by him and by our Father. I always looked forward to his calls on my birthday, and I will miss him. Rest in peace, Bill. Peace to you, Laura and your family.
My dearest Laura and children,
Words seem inadequate to express what you and Bill have meant to St. Luke’s. Perhaps a breath of fresh air would be one description, but you were indeed the hands, feet, and heart of Jesus Christ on this earth.
Who could ever forget the annual birthday calls wherever we were at the time, Laura’s offer of homemade brownies, and too many hospital visits to list. I’ll never forget last Christmas Eve when you and Bill showed up in Freddy’s hospital room with gingerbread cookies and
a big Christmas hug. We so needed that!
No matter how early a surgery or procedure was scheduled, Bill was there to calm hearts and minds with a beautiful prayer for our patient
and company for our family as we anxiously awaited results together.
Thank you, Bill, and thank you, Laura, for bringing the church to us. We love you both and will always remember you both for your kindness and slightly wicked humor. Please don’t go far, Laura, we want to spend time with you and we will honor Bill by finding joy everyday, as he did so well. ❤️ Linda and Freddy
Gosh I’m going to miss that happy voice and smiling face. I have so many good memories of him. The Emmaus Christmas gathering at the parsonage was such a blessing. I was in a Grief Shared class he lead and he was such a comfort. I’ve missed him since his retirement in this crazy Covid year. Sending all our love and prayers to Laura and all the family. Love y’all.
I remember meeting Bill in April of 2004 at Lakeview before our commissioning exams. We were “probationary” elders from that point. We were also in the same ordination class in 2007. My heart sank so much when I read the news of his passing. Bill was always so full of energy, kindness and love for others. I rarely saw him not wearing a smile, and if you didn’t have one, he would gladly give out more smiles for you to have! I am glad he served thousands of people as a pastor. I would see him at countless Annual Conference opportunities (Conference, Clergy Gathering, Order of Elders Gathering). He really represented the vocation of pastor with excellence. I have no doubt he gave a big hug to Jesus (and received one back) the second after his final moment with us. I will miss Bill very much. I am glad I will see him again on the streets of New Jerusalem with that huge smile of his; I have no doubt about that!
Bill was a remarkable human being, with the ability to bring joy to anyone’s day. His birthday calls were a highlight of each year, and his prayers and thoughtful words in sermons brought many peace and comfort. He will not soon be forgotten.
Love and prayers to his family.
Every time I was with Brother Bill we laughed. When he had a new grandson and had his 8 x 10 in his black official preacher folder he flipped it open to show me! I laid my hand on the picture and said “I have a vision, there are legos in this child’s future! “. Bill stagger back, “Laurie, you have THE GIFT OF PROPHECY!” And we both laughed. He called me during Harvey. I told him my nephews were wringing there hands with worry about me. Until finally I told one of them, “Look I never told you I wasn’t going to be a burden I told you to take vitamins and hire a trainer!” He roared with laughter. Oh Laurie, I am so proud of you.
Isn’t that a wonder legacy? Laughter! He just left joy wherever he went.
Bill was a great guy. Probably the warmest and friendliest person to greet you at St. Luke’s. I would get a call from him every year on my birthday. Even if I missed it, he’d leave a message to let me know he was thinking of me. You always knew he meant what he said. Heaven gets an angel from earth.
With love from Jeff and Joanna Hoover. She really appreciated his caring in her last days.
Bill was unique. I don’t think I have ever met another man like Bill who was literally effervescent with the love that comes from knowing Christ. I met him soon after he came to St. Luke’s and we had a chat in his office. He asked me to pray for him by name daily to help him carry out his pastoral duties. No one had ever asked me to do that before and I did it. It helped me to realize how important prayer is in supporting each of us in our vocations. Of course, I received and loved the birthday calls. Bill and Laura were a team and that team help light up St. Luke’s with love. I can’t believe I won’t hear him calling out to me with the greeting “friend.” I know he is running all around Heaven getting to know everyone and reestablishing old friendships. I’m sure all of Heaven has jumped up a notch with laughter and joy. Joel
Laura, Jim and I didn’t even know Bill. We only had one opportunity to hear him preach when he was in Wimberley a few weeks ago, filling the pulpit for our pastor who is Bill’s brother, a man we also love and respect. In his position as the person who is responsible for finding a guest pastor to fill the pulpit when our pastor is away, Jim visited with Bill for 20 minutes or so, just to make sure Bill had all the information he needed for the service. When the conversation was over, Jim turned to me and said, “I really like this man and am looking forward to hearing him preach.” We feel privileged to have had even this brief encounter with Bill and sensed immediately his goodness and that he was a true man of God. We send love to you and all your family.
Bill was such a treasure and blessing to us and to all who knew him. His smile and positive outlook always lit up a room and he had such a good sense of humor. With all his duties, he still found time to call every one of us on our birthdays each year! We’ll certainly miss him! Laura, we pray that God gives you comfort during these challenging times.
Pastor Bill was one of my favorites at St. Luke’s. I looked forward to his smile and warm greetings each Sunday and his birthday calls. He will be greatly missed. Prayers to his dear family.
So many special memories of Bro Bill! A personal favorite is his singing The Lord of the Dance one Sunday at Mt Zion as part of his sermon – it was the first time so had ever heard it but became a favorite and one forever linked to my pastor, Bill Denham.
My dear sweet Laura!! My heart is sad with Bills passing. I am a better person because of him, (and you) his love for others and his encouragement he gave everyone. I love both of you and always looked forward to Annual Conference and your annual Christmas card. My prayers are with you, Will, Martha and Bill and family. I will watch the live streaming service. Know I am praying for you every day. May God comfort you and give you peace. Love and prayers from Mt Zion UMC, Panola, Tx
It was great to see him on a Sun, he always greeted us so warmly, but even more fun to receive his annual birthday call. I don’t think I ever answered it, since I didn’t recognize the number (my policy), but that made it better, since I could play his warm message a couple of times. He will be greatly missed.
Bill’s life was a testament to God’s love … he was such a kind, gentle and joyous soul. We will all miss that smooth “Happy Birthday” call. I was particularly moved by a sermon he gave one Sunday, and I think of it from time to time. It was the story of how he felt sorry for himself when a business failed (pizza restaurant??), sad sacking it. I believe he said it was his mother who sat him down and told him how he was missing a fantastic opportunity to teach his kids how to overcome adversity but he could not see the opportunity because he was wallowing in his own self-pity. He said she was right & this was just another example of how our outlook on life just depends on our viewpoint … if we stick close to God we will always find the right way to think about our lives. Condolences to the family … may God rest his soul.
Reading all thse tributes echoes and emphasizes the impact Bill had on so many people. Somehow he was able to make us all feel special and loved by both God and the church. Laura was by his side all the time re-enforcing this message with laughter and delicious food! We will miss Bill terribly and hold Laura and the family in our hearts.
To the Denham family: he is smiling on you from Heaven, that I’m sure of With the kind of open arms and broad smile he used to welcome the Offertory n
. I have a special feeling for him as he helped me to make the decision to join St Luke and the wider Methodist community. When I said “ I’m a catholic but I’m thinking if moving”!he said well I was born a baptist , of Baptist preachers , yet I too moved ‘
He showed me the practical wisdom of Methodism , it’s emphasis on open arms and open hands
And a smile that could light up a whole Church.
We love you Bill Denham. Let your light shine.
Were were already missing Bill’s Birthday messages with his retirement. Our hearts go out to you Laura, and the rest of your family. Sending you virtual love and prayers.
Bill was such a warm and caring presence for everyone and he will be deeply missed. Sending our condolences and prayers to his extended family during this time of grief.
I will warmly remember Bill and smile when thinking how my phone would ring on my birthday each year, with Bill’s sweet, genteel voice on the other end of the line asking me how my day was going, what I planned to do and that he hoped I got a great piece of chocolate cake to celebrate. This gesture of kindness each year did not go unnoticed and was greatly appreciated. Bill will be missed by so many and we we wish his dear family peace and comfort and send our prayers during this difficult time.
Laura, Heidi and I will miss Bill! And for sure his birthday calls! I always got a kick at church how Bill could not and you also can not walk down the aisle at church without stopping to visit with people. I love it, so warm and friendly! He told me over and over and over how much he appreciated the chairs. He was so grateful and made me happy that they worked. It was always a joy to see and hear from him at our weekly Emmaus meetings. We already miss him! Our prayers are with you and your family.
I remember how fearlessly loving Bill Denham was. One time when he was about to join a youth group activity, and he just threw himself in with a smile. He didn’t care that he might not know all the rules or the kids’ slang. He didn’t worry about it. He was all-in. He was ready to fail, learn, and laugh through the whole thing. He knew that in order to love people, you have to show up for them. Failing was irrelevant in the face of love and service.
When you were with Bill Denham, he made you feel like the most important person in the world. I will never forget his smile. It was so bright, I’m sure it could be seen form space. You will be missed, Reverend. Thank you.
I look forward to my birthday. In recent years one of the high points of that day was a call from Bill. He was full of enthusiasm, joy, and good cheer. We always shared a memory or two about one of my favorite subject-my Mother. Bill and Bitsy were two loyal servants to our Lord and enjoyed a special spiritual connection. I love you Bill and feel blessed to have been part of your inspirational life. Until we meet again my good friend.
Bill’s birthday calls were a wonderful highlight of every birthday since he arrived, and his wonderful, caring, council in a very difficult time with our grandson will never be forgotten. He was truly a man who shone the spirit of our savior in his actions, his heart and soul to the people of our church and all who he came into contact with. He will be greatly missed. Laura, we are praying for you all as you navigate this new life without your beloved Bill, and hold you in our thoughts for comfort, strength and the peace that only our Lord can bring.
I and my husband Robert are sending prayers to the Denham family as well as the St. Luke’s church family. This is a heartbreaking loss…His and Laura’s warm and very genuine welcomes when we attended services always made feel so happy and grateful for their thoughtfulness. One of my very favoriite and most memorable sermons at St. Luke’s was the one where Bill explained about the gift his son bought him on a church trip when money had been so tight. His son bought a large ceramic item I believe it was on the first day of the trip with the money his parents provided for him to enjoy a few treats. When his son showed it and asked him if he liked it, Bill explained how very touched he was that his son ysed the treat money to buy it for him for a Father’s Day present. I cried to hear how moved Bill was by his son’s thoughtfulness and still am moved to tears each time I remember this very heartfelt story. Good bless Bill. He was a dear and will be greatly missed.
Laura and the Denham family, my heart was just crushed to hear the news of Pastor Bill’s passing. He was so instrumental to me and my family during times of celebrations by always getting his call on my birthday and for officiating my youngest brother’s funeral service at St Luke’s most recently. He was such a great figure for St Luke’s and had such an endearing charm about him. Bill always made us feel better of ourselves after a conversation together. We will always miss that smile and his heart that was so genuine. God bless you and your family for your healing, God has such a special angel now in heaven. I know he will oversee all our loved ones too that we’ve lost. My thoughts and prayers are with each of you, we lost such a legend since Bill made such a positive impact for our family and the St Luke’s church family too.
So sorry we’ve had to experience the loss of our “everybody’s friend”. Such loving and kind man. Thank you Laura for all the years you two shared together and the lovely family you two brought into the world. Lovingly, Shed & Clara
Cousin Laura & sweet family we were like allot of others stunned at the news of Bill’s sudden passing….our thoughts love & many prayers are with y’all now and in the coming days….Bill was so loved by Mt Zion UMC as was true with the Hill family…..one Sunday morning upon arriving at church there were some people looking up in a tree next to our church so I went over to see for myself and low & behold Bill Denham is in the tree just sitting there so my first thought was Zacchaeus I looked up and said to him Zacchaeus come down…..he said very calmly that he was channeling with Zacchaeus never looked down and that morning he gave an amazing sermon…. He also rode up on a horse as a circuit rider one Sunday…..also dressed as John Wesley…..lots of good times….meals…..conversations and always laughter…..We will always have precious memories of when the Denham’s were serving Mt. Zion UMC in a small East Texas church….All our love Cousin Laura & family…..Cousin George & Nancy Hill….
I first met Bill on his first week at St Luke’s. My beloved spouse, Diane was about to have serious surgery and Bill arrived and offered uplifting prayers and support, stayed with me in the waiting room during the entire surgery and shared in our joy when the surgery resulted in a very positive outcome. Since then we have been blessed to share in the love and joy Bill and Laura so freely give. His prior business experience made it seem so easy for him to relate as a man of god and someone who understood the pressures of the working world. Bill will be missed in our presence, but will remain in our hearts. We share in the grief being experienced by Laura and Bill’s family and look forward to to sharing in the joy that is so freely radiated by Laura.
What a vivid image I have in my head when I think of Bill Denham … if you were ever in the Sanctuary before a worship service began, you would find Bill “working” the room with a huge smile and a genuine welcome. His greetings were not just a simple hello; they were more along the lines of a heartfelt good morning and we are so glad you are here. A warm hug in the form of a verbal greeting. Laura was usually doing the same thing on the other side of the room! I loved watching the two of them work down the aisle until the service was about to begin. When I joined the staff a few years ago and started reading scripture occasionally in the 8:30 worship service, I watched Bill make his way around the sanctuary and then join us in the Narthex in time to process down the aisle. Processing beside him, you could feel the glow of that smile and the welcoming message it sent as he boomed out the words of the hymn, often, it seemed to me, from memory. I think the best way I can remember and honor my friend, Bill, is to greet others as he did, with a smile and a bold, “It is great to see you!” To Laura and family, our prayers and hugs are with you.
Laura and family–Sorry to hear of your loss. I remember him from his time at Calder Baptist in Beaumont. You are in my prayers. Doreen Hammer
Bill was a minister like no other! His presence and calm, assuring voice always warmed the room and everyone in it!
Dear Laura, Will, Martha and Jim,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time ; we are so sad for your loss as well as ours and know these last years Bill has truly been a part of so many peoples lives and been a blessings to all the lives he touched.
Bill truly found his calling, serving others in a most powerful way.
Our blessing to you and family at this t time.
The Matheny Family
Beaumont , Texas
I didn’t know Bill, but he was the definition of a true gentleman. His birthday calls to my wife were predictable, and much appreciated. I was always impressed that he knew the Apostle’s Creed by heart and said it with vigor! He made the world a better place.
I had the immense gift of meeting Reverend Bill recently when my family and I met to discuss the memorial service for our youngest brother. Though we had all been raised in St Luke’s since the late 1950’s, my brother and I had both moved away from Houston 20 years ago, though we always considered St Luke’s our true church home. From the moment Bill shook our hands, we were comforted by that warm smile of his and the feeling that we had been old friends who had grown up together. Being that we were all still a little shell-shocked, we worried after we left our meeting that perhaps we had not given Bill enough information to conduct a service that would seem personal. We couldn’t have been more wrong as Reverend Bill delivered what was the most heartfelt service, adding so many anecdotes and details that I didn’t think we had remembered to share. Everyone in the congregation was transfixed by his warm and loving words, so eloquently expressed as to give us all the peace and comfort that we were longing. Later we learned he had made a very generous donation to St Luke’s in our brother’s memory. This summed up exactly who he was – generous, kind, compassionate, and had that unique ability to share some humor along with meaningful verses from scripture that gave us such hope and comfort.
I pray for Laura and their children and families as they face the difficult days ahead and hope there is much comfort in the assurance that Bill is being richly rewarded for his role as one of God’s very special shepherds. God bless the Denham family.
He was a ray of sunlight on a cloudy day. He was the $20 “bill” I forgot I had left in my jacket pocket last year but just recently found when it got cold this year. He was a support beam that I did not even know I needed. Selfless. Gracious. Kind. HILARIOUS. Loving. Caring. Joyful. Compassionate. Prayer Warrior. Faithful Servant. Apostle. That is the Bill Denham I had the honor of calling Pastor, Co-Worker, and Friend. He was so good. I am so grateful he was in my life these last few years. Laura and family – He was loved. You are loved. We are so deeply sorry for your loss and will continue to pray fiercely for all of you.
God’s love always shined through Bill. His voice, smile and presence were full of joy. I will always think of him on my birthday and his kind birthday wishes. We are thinking of your family.
Jeaneen and I have fond memories of Bill and Denham family from our time together at Calder Baptist. Bill was a fine man. He will be a natural greeter to newcomers in heaven.
That warm smile from Bill even radiated through the phone every year with his Birthday call. We will surely missed this lovely man!
My condolences to you Laura and your family.
My thoughts and prayers are with Laura and the family.
Bill was a big help to me when I was appointed to my first appointment in the East District. He always had that warm smile and an encouraging word! I valued him as a colleague and treasured him as a friend. He will be missed.
Dear Laura, Will, Martha and Jim,
We are so sorry for this terrible loss and are grieving with you. We are thinking of you and remembering many happy times. We love you all.
Carolyn and Guy
Dear Laura and family,
I was overcome with such sadness when I learned of Rev. Denham’s passing away this past Saturday. I will forever remember him and how he helped to shape my life. I wanted to find a way to be active/involved with St. Luke’s as a full time working mother with 2 young twin boys. I prayed on this and decided to inquire and learn about the prayer team opportunities for visiting fellow church members in the hospital and praying for them and with them. I had a scheduled meeting in person with Rev. Denham almost 2 years ago. We sat and talked for nearly an hour almost and I enjoyed so much hearing about his past and his previous career path and what led him into the ministry. I enjoyed the most though hearing him talk about you and his family. At the end of our meeting, we prayed over what my decision would be in regards to joining the prayer team. He was so kind and did not want for me to become overwhelmed with agreeing to do this and with work and my children. He decided then that I would only see those church members that were admitted to the hospital where I worked and it has worked out just perfectly. I always think of him when I am walking into a room to visit someone and their family/significant others. I would think of his gentle mannerism and demeanor that was so full also of compassion and also realism too – and I knew I was blessed to be able to do this for our church and under Rev. Denham’s guidance.
I am continuing to keep your family in my prayers and thoughts and am sending you all love.
Today is my birthday, and I will really miss hearing his voice. I could always hear his smile.
Our prayers are with Laura and Bill’s family. Like everyone, we appreciated his kind birthday greetings each year, but also appreciated his genuine interest in our children. Nearly every Sunday, he paused to say “hello” to them and check in on them. Once our oldest left for college, he would greet her with a big hug on the Sundays she was home, reminding her that the church was also her home. We are grateful to have known him and will hold his family close in our prayers.
Little I could write here that hasn’t already been said – as Bill was so well loved. We were blessed as a church to have had Bill on staff, and we’re blessed with many memories of phone calls and times spent visiting with him. Bill really exemplified Christianity, a model for us all.
When we first met Bill and Laura in church one morning, it was an
instant connection! Like love at first sight! Bill’s smile was like a
spiritual searchlight and his spiritual encouragement were so
powerful. Laura’s smile and humor were a delightful connection.
Their presence in our lives was invaluable. Healing love to
Laura and family.
Dear Laura,
After we heard the sad news about Bill’s passing, my entire family discussed how much his birthday calls meant to all of us. His caring voice was always appreciated on our birthdays, and it saddens me knowing we won’t hear his voice again. I’m not sure he ever realized how special his messages were. We are so lucky to have had him as a part of the St. Luke’s Church family.
Kimm, Eric, and Katy Shafer
I’ll will think of him on my birthday. I will miss his call this year.
My husband and I try not to make too big a fuss about birthdays: we are happy to have them but don’t like the attention they can bring. HOWEVER, when we began getting our birthday calls from Rev. Bill Denham, we felt so appreciative to have been acknowledged by him. He was such a kind, sincere soul and that translated even through the phone on our special days. We will miss hearing from him, but the impact he had on us through a simple gesture will not be forgotten and will continue to influence our relationships with others. Thank you for sharing him with us!
Bill baptized my 7 year old daughter, and he was so sincere and thoughtful. I really enjoyed getting his birthday call every year. His voice was so positive and the message so joyful. It felt like a family member reaching out to express their excitement about my day.
What a great man and mentor to all of us at St. Luke’s. We love Bill and Laura and have so many memories of his birthday calls. In fact, the Covenant class decided and all called Bill on his birthday. He was so funny when I called – he always made room in his tough time-line to talk. Nancy attended high school with him and Laura came to our class when she could. She even brought bacon instead of donuts – love her. I am sure when Bill approached heaven, God was was looking at him with care and appreciation and then they started laughing together. Bill would always create smile in anyone he met. I will miss Bill’s smile and humor. Laura, we are with you in prayer and we will do anything to give you support and show you the importance of your life on all of us. In Christ.
My children attend St. Lukes. I was so thrilled and honored when Bill came to visit me while I was in the hospital. Every time I’d visit St. Luke’s Bill would speak to me and make me feel welcome. He is an example of proof of Christ among us.
Reva Power
Rev. Denham was a blessing to us. Laura, we have you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Dear Denham Family,
We are so sorry to hear of Bill’s passing. I was talking to friends around Thanksgiving about how he called us all on our birthdays and how this year we were not going to get a phone call because of his retirement. Those birthday phone calls he made to all of us was a bright spot in our day. Bill was a special man that lit up a room.
Prayers for peace and comfort from God. He will be truly missed.
I was blessed to know the Denham family in the early 1990’s when they first came into the United Methodist Church in Beaumont. Will had recently gone to college so I did not get to know him very well. However, I got to know Bill, Laura, Martha and Jim pretty well. They are truly among the most genuine, fun, caring people I have ever met. Bill was not in the ministry yet, but when I learned years later that he had become a United Methodist Minister, I was not surprised. In fact, I was thrilled for he and his family and especially for all of the additional lives I knew he would be reaching in his very special way. When I recently read about his retirement, I was so excited for he and Laura. I was devastated to learn of his passing! I have nothing but positive memories of he and his beautiful family and can not imagine the struggles they are going through. Fortunately, I know they should be at peace because of his and their faith. Rest in peace good and faithful servant! I will be taking time away from work Monday to celebrate Bill and family along with many others online.
Bill with his warm smile and shining face visited me in the hospital on two separate occasions. Thank you Bill for bringing sunshine into my hospital room. Thank you Laura for sharing both you and Bill with the St. Luke’s family. My prayers are with Laura and family. Both Bill and Laura are examples of Lives Lived Well. I am saddened that Bill passed so soon after retirement. I wish Bill and Laura had 30+ years of joy and travel after Bill’s retirement.
Rev. Denham warmly welcomed us to St. Luke’s when we became members of the Church after a service 9 years ago. In addition to the loving and celebratory birthday calls we would get from him (even when I didn’t have an actual birthday in “non-leap year” years for me!), he kindly visited us in the hospital with when our son was born. The night Rev. Denham passed, our son (now 3yr old) was picking out books and picked out the book that he brought to him in the hospital. We think that was him smiling down on us that evening.
That sermon changed my life and my marriage….i love you and there’s nothing you can do about it….i always looked forward to my happy birthday call for brother bill…now he will be calling from heaven
I was so saddened to hear about Rev. Denham’s passing. He married my husband and I at St. Luke’s in August 2013. We did pre marital counseling with him, and he was wonderful. I loved his smile and vivacious spirit. He was kind and encouraging, and truly practiced what he preached. I will miss getting a birthday call next year! My sincerest condolences to his family and closest friends.
Bill, I hope you have a good seat up there because you will be amazed at the number of people who want to celebrate you. You have done so much for all of us. What fun to receive a call from you on our birthdays You and Laura were an example of how we should live our lives with love .
We are so saddened to hear the news of Rev. Bill’s passing. He was such a kind person. I was always so happy to receive a call from Bill on my birthday. He never forgot. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Bill was a great Pastor and a wonderful friend and I will surly miss him. We climbed Circle Bluff and swam the Frio River together. He was a veteran of the US Army and his selfless service afterwards knew no limits. Bill taught us how to pray in all circumstance and joy was always in his actions and words. Rest in Peace, good and faithful servant; you are missed.
We miss you so much already Bill. We’re going to miss our birthday calls. I’m still waiting, by the way, for the new Tesla you said was at the dealership for me one birthday. We’re going to miss your smile, your joy and the love which just radiated from you. Laura and family- we love you all and we pray God’s comfort and healing upon you.
Reverend Denham was such a dear person and he will be deeply missed. My husband and I always looked forward to his annual birthday call. One year, he caught me on a birthday that was a particularly hard day and Reverend Denham provided such comfort and fortitude through his words. I will never forget that experience and his impact on my life. Sending love and strength to you, Laura, and the entire Denham family. Bill was a treasure.
Rev. Denham was the kind of person who could make anything better with just his presence and warm smile. He made me (and everyone else) feel welcome in the church, even though I’m only a student. Rev. Denham encouraged me even when I didn’t know I needed encouragement and his words are now on repeat in my head, “You will do great things, Mackenzie.” As I got more involved in church, Rev. Denham always greeted me with a hug and a witty remark, something so simple but very significant. I feel blessed to have known and been cared about by Rev. Denham. Laura and family, please know that the legacy and love of Bill will never be forgotten. Y’all are in my prayers and are loved so much.
Bill was such a special person and I will miss him very much. My heart goes out to you Laura and all his family. May God bless you.
Our hearts are broken… I am one of our favorite memories of Pastor Bill is when he calls us on our birthday. without fail he would call us every year on our birthday and leave a lovely message. our love and prayers to the family. He will be missed but not forgotten.
I still have saved in my voicemailbox the birthday call I got from brother Bill…a keepsake that always cheers me up! He always was radiating warmth and lovingkindness. What a wonderful example for us all who knew and cherished him.
Before each of my daughter’s surgeries, Reverend Denham showed up to pray at Texas Childrens with my family . Reverend Denham’s calming presence put our family at ease and I would immediately feel the Good Shepherd’s presence. The days when he would visit the hospital quickly became the highlight of our days! He was a true gift to this Earth (and the congregation at St. Lukes) and will be missed dearly. So many prayers for comfort and peace for Laura and family.
His birthday call each year meant so much to me. The first year, I remember wondering if I had time to take that call that I didn’t recognize. After the first year, I looked forward to Pastor Bill’s cheery Birthday wishes. He was a treasure and will be missed. Prayers for his family!!!
Bill Denham uplifted everyone he came in contact with. He radiated his love for Christ. His inner joy and positive outlook was contagious. We always looked forwarded to seeing him in the church congregation. His presence at St Luke’s will be greatly missed..
These comments are such a tribute to a life well lived! I have know Bill Denham since I was a young girl in Beaumont, TX. He was always a burst of sunshine and one of the kindness men around. He was a loving father and devoted husband. He always made everyone laugh and he always let you know how much he cared.
He set the bar high for all of us whether we are in a ministry field or not. He was a great example of how Christ wants us to love. He was beyond special. I am so honored to have know Bill Denham. His family is such an extension of his grace, goodness, humor, intellect and faith. How blessed we all are to have had him in our lives.
Growing up across the street from Bill and Jim was a blessing and an education for me. I have one great story I would love to pass on. I am thankful for the leadership that Bill gave me.
I know he will missed by many. God bless you.
Bill:
I’m gonna miss you buddy. It was so wonderful having you as a friend. You were always there for me. I will never forget when you comforted my family after my dad‘s passing. Your prayers and love were unsurpassed.
I will always cherish our friendship, you were such a good man. I will love you always. Rest in peace my good friend. The trumpets in Heaven are singing your name.
Brendan Webb
I saw Jesus’s love when I was around Bill Denham. His smile, his kindness was a reflection of our Lord in him. He shared Jesus’s love with all those around him. May the Holy Spirit comfort the Denham family at this time.
Rev. Denham you will be missed! You married my wife Rachel and I in 2015 and ever since you have had a special place in our hearts. We looked forward to your birthday calls every year and I can still hear you saying “I hope you get to enjoy a big slice of chocolate cake”! Your kindness, compassion, positive outlook on life, and of course your amazing sense of humor will always be in my memory. Your effect on others will be your legacy for sure! We just had a baby boy in June and we were hopeful you could meet him or baptize him. God bless you and your family.
Andrew and Rachel Johnson
We never had to worry about forgetting our birthdays. Bill would always call. We will miss getting his call.
I will always cherish my conversations with Bill. He was one of the kindest and most caring individuals I have had the privilege of knowing. He did not hesitate to make himself available after the sudden loss of two close family members. And, his birthday phone calls were always a welcomed treat. Bill made this world a better place, and will be missed by many.
Dear Denham Family,
I am sure I am not the only one who loved the birthday calls from Bill. The best ones were when I was home and able to actually talk to him. That happened last January, and we had such a good time chatting. I don’t know how I rated it, but one year I even received birthday brownies clandestinely left on my front porch. How was I so lucky, Laura? Bill was brimming with life, and it was hard to feel down in the dumps around him. His smile just would not quit! What a wonderful man! He will be sorely missed and never forgotten! Thank you, Laura, for sharing him with all of us.
Laura, we are so sorry for your loss. Rev. Denham was such an inspiration to our St. Luke’s community. We so looked forward to his calls every year for our birthdays and we will miss his sermons. He will be missed and his spirit will live in us for many years to come. Special prayers to you and your sweet family.
Love, The Amezquita’s
Bill married us! It is something we will never forget. Seeing him smile on Sunday’s made
us all forget our worries for that moment. We are praying for the Denham family. Thank you for sharing him with all of us!
One morning I walked into St Luke’s for the first time, not knowing a soul, and left after a few hours with two best friends – Reverend Bill and his charming wife Laura. With a heart of gold and an infectious personality, the Reverend and Laura were like family to me in a new city and in a new church. A few years later, Reverend Denham married me and my wife in August of 2018 at the church. I will never forget the pre-marital counseling sessions with Reverend Denham, where he imparted words of wisdom that I still quote today. Laura was never a stranger, and always made a point to not only greet us in service, but move spots so she could sit with me and my wife. Life eventually brought me back to Dallas, to a different church, associated with a different denomination. Still, Reverend Denham continued to call me and my wife on our birthdays. He was a true friend and a gift from God. May He bless Laura and the entire Denham family during this time.
One of the first things I thought about with Bill was always remembering seeing him come towards my desk there when I was doing my volunteer work on Thursdays and hearing him say “Well Barbara Jean and how are you today?” What a beautiful big grin he always had. He was always dressed so impeccably. What a splendid man. A Sterling character and such a Shining Light of God’s love to the whole world. And yes, I even still have on my phone his last birthday greeting to me. What a JOY to know him. He will so truly be missed.
What a sterling character Bill was. Truly a man of God who so touched each of us with his wonderful life. I will never forget hearing his lovely voice greeting me on Thursdays when I was there doing my volunteer work. He was always so impeccably dressed and what a beautiful smile. As with many others I was always so touched with his birthday greetings. I still fortunately had the one left over from this year. He and Laura were such a good team. He was such a JOY to be with and he will truly be missed. My prayers for His peace and comfort to be with Laura and the family.
In His love and with mine,
Barbara Jean
I will always remember seeing Bill at Calder Baptist Church in Beaumont with a big smile on his face and ALWAYS had something GREAT to say. Bill will be missed.
JOHN ILES
and the entire ILES Family
Bill was a remarkable human being: authentic, decent, compassionate, kind, and loving, a smiling, generous friend to those for whom love was a stranger, a true disciple who lived and loved like Jesus. What an incredible blessing to have known him.
My prayers are with you every morning!
With a September birthday, I had already experienced “missing” Bill’s annual birthday call as a result of his retirement this summer. And while I looked forward to those birthday phone calls, he will always hold a place in my heart for always being at MD Anderson before Dad’s surgeries where he provided our family the calming comfort only he could. To have him pray with and for us as he went into surgery was so incredibly reassuring for everyone. But all the more so for Mom and Dad. Bill was so special to our parents that my brother and I had been given instructions to have him officiate at their services when that day arrived….instructions that will need revising. Know that the Denham family is in the Brill family’s prayers. Wishing you the peace that passes all understanding.
Laura: So very sorry to learn of Bill’s passing. I will always appreciate Bill holding Scott’s service at Glenwood last year. I admired Bill very much and always enjoyed visiting with him. Laura, I certainly will be thinking about you in the days ahead.
What sincere messages of love, appreciation, and admiration precede my comments. I knew Bill because he was Laura’s husband. Laura and I pledged together at SMU. Her depth of character and Christian faith were evident and her contagious love of life surrounded all she met. After many years apart, we were recently blessed to reunite. She and Bill together were a force of love, shared joy, and service to their Creator and community. My heart and prayers wrap them in God’s grip. May comfort, courage, endurance, peace and precious memories of dear Bill surround them.
Dear Laura and family,
The essence of Bill was pure joy in helping others. From his warm and beautiful smile, welcoming everyone at services on Sunday morning, calling everyone of us on our birthdays, to helping grieving members find peace and direction, and being with members and friends of members when they were in the hospital — all were gifts of love to all us. He was a very special man who will deeply missed. We are all thankful he was a part of our lives. I am keeping you and your family in my prayers for peace and comfort.
Reverend Denham’s annual birthday calls were cherished by me and my children. A wonderful angel who brightened everyone spirits is in heaven now.
Bill Denham was a fine family man and friend. He loved. He laughed. He exuded joy. He was an inspiration. I was blessed to meet him, Laura, Will, Martha and Jim in the late 1990s when I was appointed associate pastor of the church (Trinity UMC, Beaumont) they were attending at the time. I was also honored to be a part of helping him discern his call to ministry. I’ll never forget the Sunday we arranged for him to preach for me at the small, early service in Dishman Chapel. He preached an inspiring message. Unfortunately, the senior pastor lost consciousness and was transported to the hospital at the end of that service (no fault of Bill or his message). Since I didn’t have a sermon prepared to preach our much larger service that was live on TV and radio, I asked Bill if he’d be willing to preach his sermon again. He looked like a deer in the headlights at first, but gathered his composure and gladly preached again. So, on his very first Sunday preaching, Bill unexpectedly preached to several hundred people in person, and live on TV and radio for thousands more to hear!
I remember Bill well from his tenure a restaurant owner and member of Calder Baptist in Beaumont Texas. His common sense, intellect and enthusiasm was exemplary. His love for God was to behold!
When Bill was first introduced to the congregation by Tom as an addition to our pastoral staff, from the Methodist church in Grapeland Texas, following that service we immediately introduced ourselves to Bill, since we had family from there and nearby Palestine. From that moment on we developed a close relationship with Bill and Laura. We have had some truly special times with them and their family and we love them dearly.
Bill Denham was so full of life, love and the Lord. He was always with us at the hospital when procedures were required, and his presence there was so genuinely caring and with so much love. He was such a special man who served God and our beloved church in such a wonderful and meaningful way.
So much has already been said by so many that vividly demonstrate how much Bill was loved and appreciated by our congregation and staff. What a tribute to a very special man!
So to Bill in Heaven and to Laura, we will always love you both and there is nothing you can do about it. You have both been such a blessing in our lives and in so many others. Thank you, God, for Bill and Laura.
Love,
Jack & Pat Vaughan
Bill and I became friends sitting next to each other in Jr. High and then at Lamar. We were seated alphabetically so that pattern continued since I was named Crane and he was Denham. Poor guy. Every time I would see him at the Lamar Reunions for the Class of 1961, I would inquire as to when he was going to become a preacher. He would inform me that he was in business, etc and finally the Houston Zoo. He had the personality of a loving, gentle, and sincere person from the day I met him and, he was just a warm preacher type! I recall clearly the day in 2012 as I was leaving our Sunday School class, someone asked if I had met our new minister of caring, Bill Denham? I asked if he was tall and skinny with gray hair and receiving an affirmative response, I went running to find him. In his usual laughing and funny manner, the first thing he said when I came running up to him “I know, I know, you were right all along.” What a joy to have him wearing and using his preacherness to love on all of us. He and Laura have been such a blessing to the entire community. One of my favorite parts of his service was that when he said the Lord’s Prayer it was as if he was saying it to someone to explain it and not just wrote. I will miss him so much until we see each other again. He left us with that promise and he had learned it from Our Father. RIP, my dear friend. You are so missed. Well done, good and faithful servant.
The fading of the bright light of Reverend Bill Denham’s caring, sincere, genuine smile has left our world more dim when we realize it will not greet us at church again. The void created by his passing cannot be measured, but we have the comfort of knowing he will greet us again in Heaven. The unquestioning support he offered me in these recent years has been remarkable. It seems that life in the Bill and Laura Denham household must have been one of complete joy. My heart is so sorrowful for the loss of this wonderful man — to his family, to me, to the church, and to the world. I’m so grateful I experienced knowing Reverend Bill in my lifetime.
What a legacy Bill Denham has left us all.
Dear Laura & Family, we offer our sincerest condolences to all of you. Bill was such an asset to our church family & a wonderful minister & friend. He will be sorely missed, but not forgotten. We are keeping all of you in our prayers & know your strong faith will give you strength to try to get through this. We are all here for you.
In Him, the Gloaguens
Laura and family, we are shocked and saddened to hear of Bill’s passing. I think God must have needed him in Heaven more than he needed him on earth. I know you are heart broken and will miss him terribly. Lots of prayers and hugs coming to you and yours. May God bless and keep you and give you peace.
What a beautiful soul. He recently performed my daughters wedding and their pre-wedding counseling. He was so frank and had such beautiful words! It was obvious he spoke from his heart and experience. Such a fine human example all around!
Bill Denham was a gift to St. Luke’s. Thank you for sharing him with us. We are forever blessed.
Our love and prayers are with you and your family. Rosalind
I absolutely loved Pastor Bill Denham. He was a wonderful man full of love for all.
I will always be grateful for his encouragement and support after my husband died. I was honored when he ask me to join him in producing a CD about grief for St Luke’s.
His Sunday hugs and smiles are a great remembrance of him.
My love and prayers go out to Laura and the family.
Bill was one of a kind, and such a blessing! His sparkling smile, fabulous sense of humor, and heartfelt prayers were gifts. Bill was a true Godsend to us when he visited Gary in the hospital last year. It was a difficult day; Bill arrived and got down on his knees on the hard hospital floor, so he could look Gary right in the eyes. Bill listened to Gary and knew exactly what to say to Gary and to me to calm us and give us strength.
Dear Laura, Will, Martha and Jim,
We were so saddened to hear of the passing of Bill. Our hearts go out to you all during this difficult time. He was an amazing person and lived an amazing life… and is leaving an amazing legacy through his family and all his good work. What a blessing we had in having him on this planet and in our lives. We did not know Bill well but cherished his annual birthday calls. I swear I enjoyed his bday phone calls more than the ones I received from my own family! lol…. Hearing his voice on the other end of that annual phone call just put a beam on my face every time! It especially brought me cheer the year I went through cancer treatment. He will be immensely missed…… Love, prayers, and well wishes to you all. The Rozics: Dick, Kendra, Jacob, Ben, & Eden
Always a smile on his face and an open and caring heart – we will miss Bill.
Dear Laura and family, Bill inspired me to be a better me. He was so true to his self and so dedicated to letting all of us know that we indeed had what it took to make a difference in the lives of all we touch. He modeled his message. I loved him for loving all of us, unconditionally. He will be sorely missed. May the peace of God descend on you and hold you close. With much love and heartfelt sympathy, Gene Graham
Bob and I were so very sad to read that Bill had passed away. His pastoral care through the years meant a lot to our family. His enthusiasm for life spread joy to everyone. We were blessed to know him. Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you.
Dear Laura,
Bill was such a special person. There are many memories. One in particular is the time he came to speak to our Support Group for lawyers dealing with major depression or bipolar disorder. He spoke from the heart and made everyone feel comfortable. In retrospect, I am grateful that I had a final conversation with him on his birthday, which as I recall was in September. It was the usual warm and friendly Bill on the other end of the phone line. I will certainly miss him.
Sincerely,
Ted
I feel so blessed that I got to know pastor Bill Denham and Laura.
He’s gone from our sight, but never from our hearts.
I am going to miss his warm smile and voice.
With my deepest condolences to Laura and family.
Laura, may you and your loved ones find peace and comfort in knowing how treasured you and Bill are to SLUMC. In addition to his birthday calls, Bill always expressed his sincere gratitude to each of us who served on his Hospital Visitation Team. This ministry was very dear to Bill’s heart and he served it so graciously. Each of you have been a bright light in so many lives, may you feel the warmth and love from those friends you served.
Blessings and comfort,
Laura – I think of Bill as a personal friend. Early in his ministry at St Lukes, he was leading the worship service in the gym and when he asked those who wanted †ø join the church to come forward, a young lady walked up to the stage.. Because there was no carpet he whipped off his coat and gallantly placed it on the floor for her to be comfortable kneeling! How symbolic! How personal and spontaneous! He literally gave the coat off his back to serve. That booming singing voice, giant smile, and hugs each Sunday will always be a part of my memories, as well as many personal prayers, conversations and times in small groups. Thank you for sharing this amazing man with all of us. Can you imagine how many angel’s names he already knows!
Miss Laura, although I never had the opportunity to meet your husband, I am so touched by reading about his incredible ministry and his heart for our Lord. Prayers for you and your children and grandchildren during the difficult days ahead. May the Lord bless and keep you, may His shine His face upon you and grant you peace. May you be comforted by beautiful memories, the love and support of friends and family, and His peace which surpasses all understanding.
With much respect and friendship, Amy Clark
Laura,
I am so very sorry to hear of Bill’s passing. What a loss! I still remember the first time we met at Calder Baptist Church in Beaumont when Craig and I were looking for a church. You were working in the nursery and when I brought Mindy to the nursery , you made us feel so welcome. Our days at Calder and our children becoming best friends there, you and Bill were such dear friends during our time in Beaumont. And now, years later, Bill pastoring at St. Luke”s where Justin and Kristi are members was such a wonderful completion of the circle of love. Bill Denham made a difference in so many people’s lives. He will be sorely missed. We send our deepest condolences.
We have enjoyed all of Pastor Bill and Laura’s ministry to us. His birthday phone calls were so special and appreciated. We especially enjoyed hearing them both speak to our Sunday School class at Gethsemane, women’s groups, as well as being welcomed into their home. What a loss for all of us! Our prayers are with Laura and the rest of his family.
Laura and Denham family, I am so very sad for your loss. Bill’s memory and love lives in each of you forever. We grieve along with you. God will carry you through this time.
Barb and I did not know Bill that long except through the online worship in the past year. He was such a blessing to us. We were very happy for him that he recently retired. Prayers of comfort for his family.
August 2017 – this began my seminary internship. How could I have known what awaited me in the person of Rev. Bill Denham? His bright, infectious smile was seemingly never-ending! His quick wit was a joy to hear! I was so very blessed to have accompanied him on hospital visits and worship at the senior living centers. I am so much better and wiser for having been mentored, supported and encouraged by his example as well as his huge, giving heart. Our connection did not end after the year concluded; he and Laura even surprised me by showing up at my seminary graduation at SMU! He had such compassion and empathy for the people he served! I hope to make him proud by the way I live my life of service moving forward. I will truly miss our talks and our visits. My prayers are with Laura and their family as well as the St. Luke’s family. I know heaven gained an angel. His presence will be forever felt. Love lives on.
Miss Laura, you and family are always welcomed to visit Bill’s old home on Chevy Chase. Come by, knock, ring the bell.
I had the Joy of being a prayer partner with Bill — he was a light in our lives and our entire family will miss him.
You will be missed “my friend”. I loved that you always ended communion in the Chapel holding hands and signing a song. I will miss your smile and caring words. You were a blessing to St Luke’s and I am blest to have know you.. Prayers are with you Laura as you move forward.
When my parents died, I found great consolation in Bill’s grief class—not so much in the study materials, but in Bill’s perspective and wisdom and kind words. I pray that Laura and the family find the same comfort which Bill gave to me and to so many others. I always thought of Laura and Bill as the church sweethearts. I am grateful for the joy they brought to St. Luke’s.
Please accept my sympathy for the passing of Bill Denham. He was a great asset to St. Luke’s church and I always was impressed by his birthday calls. Laura I hope to continue to see you in church from time to time and I wish you the best in your time of sorrow. Dr. Bill Banks
How blessed we all are to have had Bill in our lives. He always had a big smile on his face and kind, loving words as his greeted us. We will miss him so! I will remember him on every birthday and eat that big slice of chocolate cake in his honor! Love to you, Laura and all the family at this difficult time. I’m not worried about Bill because I know he is in heaven greeting everyone and welcoming them home.
Dearest Laura – Oh, how we will miss Bill and his exuberant “Zest for Life” personality! He truly had a gift for caring earnestly, loving each individual unconditionally, singing robustly, welcoming everyone enthusiastically, spreading the gospel genuinely, and being a joyful friend to all. His birthday telephone calls were legendary – so meaningful and clever, perfect for each grateful recipient. He touched so many lives and the two of you were a dynamic duo. We thank God for Bill’s dedicated life of service and for the many happy memories that we will treasure for years to come! All our love to you and your family -Joanie and Don Haley
When my dad died unexpectedly we were still in the hospital and I asked my mom who to call – she said call the Church – call Bill Denham. I had never met him and he had never met my dad- but his care for us and listening to us tell stories about my dad made the service so special. I’ll never be able to tell him how thankful we are for that. I am so sorry we have lost him from this earth but celebrate his heavenly homecoming.
We sang that song at my fathers funeral and It was the first time Rev Dunham had sung it! It is so special to me that he sang it again after his service as if it really stuck with him – the joy of the Lord!
Dear Laura and Denham Family, I was so shocked and saddened to learn of Bill’s passing. He was a wonderful man and a star of a pastor, and I will miss him. I hope that the expressions of love extended to you will be a comfort in this difficult time.
How shall I greet thee, dear Laura, dear Laura; how shall I greet thee, with words and not hugs? I have moved from my own wordless screaming grief to my concern for you, weakly borne in words on a computer, but as deeply felt caring as words can convey. The old rituals help, a little. And then, and then, the glimmer of hope in God (can I speak so pretentiously?), felt deeper than words, that nothing of our dear sweet Bill is lost, but is kept, kept fully and forever, by the One who keeps us, too, and the whole world.
I have grown old, and losing dear friends has become too common, too vulgar. Bill was a special friend, with whom I had hoped to have many more conversations, laughs, and soul-connecting. Now, all those hopes “lie under the wave.” But we are still here, for a while. Grateful, deeply grateful, for a life that was given into my life, shared for a while. And changed, because of that gift.
God bless you, dear Laura, dear Laura; God bless you today, and God bless you tomorrow, and all the tomorrows that come. One thing I know, deeper and beyond my words: Blessing is God’s good work, and God is no slacker. And from me: virtual hugs, but real love, through this technological artifice.
Leaving a Mark: Bill and I both started working at St. Luke’s in 2012. My childen were just 9 and 6 years old back then. When Henry or Wyatt came by the office, Bill would make time in his busy day and call them in for a “man to man” visit. I can only guess that they spoke about: God, school, Eagle Scout project, and girls? Before they left, he would open his office closet and mark on the inside of the door their height and date it in pencil. He made a big deal about how much they had grown. The marks spanned over a 3 foot area in 8 years. They both got to see Bill right before he retired and was cleaning out his office. I’m grateful I have a photo of him measuring them, both taller than Bill now at 6’3? He found something unique in everyone he spoke with and made them feel relaxed and special. That was his gift. Sadly the marks inside his closet door have been painted over but his mark on my boys will never fade. Thank you Bill for helping me raise my two sons. You will never be forgotten.
Dear Laura,
We are so grateful to have had Bill in our lives! What a kind, compassionate, caring, uplifting, generous and wise person he was. We could always “hear” his smile in all the years of birthday calls! His love for everyone was obvious and especially his love for his family. We love you Laura and we love Bill. Thank you for sharing him with so many!
A precious man, who lived what he believed. Laura to you and your family we wish peace of heart during this time of loss.
One can not think of him without seeing the smile on his face. He was a bright light to everyone he touched.
When my husband and I joined St. Luke’s several years ago, we were drawn to the people and the community. Little did we know that this group of people would become such an important part of our faith journey and help us when we needed guidance. Rev. Denham was a unique individual, his smile was infectious and my husband and I both looked forward to his birthday call every year. And it wasn’t that he just called to say happy birthday. He truly remembered the details of our lives, which is no easy feat with a congregation of this size.
To the Denham family, we are so sorry for your loss. Rev. Denham was an amazing man and touched the lives of so many. We are sending our prayers to you and your family during this time and will be here for you just like Rev. Denham was always here for us.
The loss of Rev Bill Denham has left me so thunderstruck in a year that I thought could not get any worse. To the Denham family my deepest sympathy in the loss of your patriarch. Your husband, father, grandfather and brother was something special…literally a God send to so many of us. I pledge to be more kind, loving and understanding as Bill taught us by his example. Thank you Bill for your ministry and for you kindness to us all.
Reverend Denham, Brother Bill, Friend Bill was decisive and authentic. I shall miss the way he was so decisive in placing the ashes on Ash Wednesday. Holy Communion; calling you by name. After Prayer of Confession; the way he said “In the name of Jesus Christ, you are forgiven” you felt forgiven.
We are blessed to have known you and our memories will last forever
My deepest condolences for such a monumental loss. He definitely left this world better than he found it. His joy for others was evident even on the Birthday phone calls. We always laughed together at ours because we shared a birthday. I will think kindly of him always and his service to lift others burdens.
Love in Christ,
Joanna Malach
Laura,
I feel so blessed to know wonderful you and to have known your precious Bill. I took his grief class and boy was he heaven sent! That smile could wipe away all sadness.
What a special gift he had for bringing God’s word and way to all he met. The birthday calls were so special as was he and he will leave a big void but will always remain
in our hearts.
Love you.
Bill Denham is a true Christian spirit that always was glad to see you. He showed love and sacrifice through his daily birthday calls. These calls weren’t just perfunctory; each one showed the true caring and fun spirit of Bill. Bill had such energy and joy as he went about his day. Bill shepherded Stephen’s Ministry at St. Luke’s for so many years; I remember he and Laura hosting a graduation lunch at their for my class of Stephen Ministers and it was a truly warm and lovely event. We will miss your smile but heaven is brighter with you!
Bill’s spirit embodied pure love and empathy. The genuine feeling in his annual birthday calls to all our family was deeply appreciated and his consoling words during my divorce were very comforting. It is a great loss.
Laura, Bill was a friend and brother to me. I will always be thankful for and cherish the time we spent together and the spirit between us. Love you.
The best phrase I can use to describe Bill Denham is “vigorous, relentless kindness and joy”. From the moment we started attending services at St. Luke’s, on nearly every Sunday, Bill would greet my wife and I before services, and bid us farewell as we left. When our daughter Abby arrived in 2015, he always had a moment for her, or even a little toy to give from his office. If we ever had any doubts that St. Luke’s was a home for us, Bill continuously chiseled away at those thoughts with his presence and his fellowship. We will miss him greatly, and we are sending our love to Laura and Bill’s entire family.
Dear Laura, You and Bill reached out to our family and made St Lukes feel like a small community. We looked forward each Sunday to our church exit and a greeting from Bill; where he would often share the latest pictures of your beautiful grandchildren. We feel so fortunate to have known him and to learn from his example of love and kindness to all. We send our hugs and look forward to seeing you again soon.
Dear Laura,
Both you and Bill have been guiding Lights in my life.
He followed the Lord in all things. His personal message of being One with Christ was evident the moment he looked into your eyes.
This world is a better place because of your husband.
Thank you for sharing him with us.
Bill Denham was one of the greatest Christian men I have ever known. Bill touched the lives of hundreds if not thousands of people. And that SMILE!?!? Never without it. It lit-up the room whenever he entered. And what would Bill have done without his ‘side-kick’ of 50 years wonderful ‘Miss Laura’? An amazing lady. Together they made the perfect couple to spread the word and that word is “LOVE.” Bill, you will always be with us, and until we are reunited in heaven, we will miss you here on earth each and every day. You ‘won the race’ my friend.
So many wonderful memories of dear Bill and you, Laura; so many laughs; so many stories shared; so many times that I “knew” y’all understood “things”. I miss the two of you together and will be here any time it’s too quiet for you. You are a precious person and also so helpful to so many. To all of you, Will and family, Martha and family & Jim and family my sincerest thanks for sharing your precious husband, father, father-in-law and grandfather and my deepest sympathy. With you in spirit today.
Hi, Bill and Nancy! So sad about our dear Bill Denham! He lived a few houses down from George growing up on Chevy Chase and was one year older! They were playmates, hope you are both well. Let’s talk soon! We are working from home! Much love and Merry Christmas, Mary Rustay
The memories of times with Bill washed over me as a huge waterfall. The only sorrow I have is to no longer have the opportunity to meet him for lunch and be lifted up in love once more. His dedication to spreading God’s love will surely live on! See you a bit further down the road, roomie!
We miss Bill already. His beautiful singing, his smile, his earnest prayers, his pure joy, his birthday calls, his hospital visits, his big love, his example of Cristian life, his life of faith and service. How grateful we are for the grace of his presence. When we think of Bill, we automatically think of dear Laura, for they truly were a team. They gave so much to so many. Though our hearts are sad, Heaven is more joyous today!
Prayers for peace and comfort for you, Laura, and for all your family. Know that you and Bill are well loved,
He crossed over and the angels sang…
Beverly & Steve Witt
Chris & Elizabeth Coffman attended the memorial service. Henry, Robert and Adair wish they could have and have asked their classes to pray for you today. Laura, we love you.
Laura, Bill was such a joy in our life! He will be missed! We love you and are keeping you and your family in our prayers. Your cousins, Hugh and Fannie Parker
Bill Denham was a one of a kind, wonderful man. Whenever I was with him, I was smiling. He was warm, friendly and enthusiastic. His ability to remember people, and to remember important things about them, and to show that he cared about them, was only exceeded by those same qualities in his wife, Laura. He was very smart. He was diligent and humble. Bill officiated at the wedding of my daughter Kristen. He was my friend.
Bill was enthusiastic about many things, but he was most enthusiastic about Laura. It was obvious that he considered himself to be the luckiest man in the world to have married her, and to have lived his life with her. There is no doubt she was the love of his life.
Laura, Please know you and your family are in our prayers. We are blessed to have known Bill! We are your cousins, Hugh and Fannie.
Laura and family: Bill Denham was one of the loveliest men we had the privilege to know. Whenever I talked with him, I felt I had his undivided attention and caring. He loved people, our church and his family unconditionally. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers and how very sorry we are for your loss. God bless and keep you! Ned and Cathy Graber
Reverend Denham’s smile even came through during his phone calls. What a gift he was to us at St. Luke’s! We will continue to spread his special message of the fact that “Jesus loves you and there is nothing you can do about it!!” Your family is close to our hearts during this time.
Bless you Mrs. Laura,
Bro. Bill was truly a pastor. He loved people and loved teaching. I am a better person and Christian because of him. He is already miss! I cherish the time both of you were at our church.
Charlene and Katharyn Goosmann
Mere words are inadequate to express my great sadness at the sudden passing of our pastor, my friend and mentor Rev. Bill Denham. My very sincerest condolences to his family, dear wife Laura, children and grandchildren, and my hope is that they feel comfort in knowing how much he was loved for his caring, kindness and compassion.
Well done, good and faithful servant. Bill’s legacy is beyond measure. He’s a model of the art and craft of pastor. May God expand his impact and bless his family with peace.
Laura, Bill was such a special person as are you. We will always love you both.
There was nothing like being greeted by Bill Denham! Always a smile, always something to share, always made you feel special! We will miss you dearly. Laura, we are holding you close and praying for you.
All our love,
Michele & Mike Tyson
Claire & Will DeShazo
Gracie Tyson
Laura and family,
I pray that you are comforted by the knowledge of Bill’s faith. There are so many of us who were personally touched by him and loved him. I will miss him, too. Love to all of you.
Bill Denham was so giving and caring. He helped me a lot when I was going through a rough patch. My prayers are with his family; may you all be blessed.
Adam Ahmad
Our prayers are with Laura and the family. We will dearly miss Bill and his joyful presence in our lives and in the life of St. Luke’s.
To Laura and Bill’s Family:
We love you and will pray for your comfort and peace during this tough time. Bill was always such a warm and happy person when we saw him at church and you could feel his warm and genuine smile through the phone when he called to tell you Happy Birthday each year.
Sincerely,
Phillip and Melissa Brown
Mrs. Denham, Martha, Will, and Jim:
Our hearts hurt for you right now. Reverend Denham meant a lot to many people, but to none more than you. Catherine and I are lucky to have known him since we were kids–and blessed to have him reenter our lives more recently through St. Luke’s. We will miss him, as I know you will. Our love and prayers go out to you.
I will miss Bill’s sweet, soothing voice, and smiling face. I always loved receiving his phone call on my birthday. Love and Blessings to your family.
I understand all too clearly what you are going through. Your faith and love of God will see you through the days, weeks, months ahead. We will each miss our “Bills.” Love, Debby Leighton
John and I were so sorry to hear of Bill’s passing. He will be so very missed. Our prayers are with Laura and all the family
Laura and family,
I couldn’t help but feel a tug at my heart as I watched you walk in to the sanctuary greeting those who came to comfort you! We love you!
The Schuler family
Bill spread joy and Christ’s love everywhere. He was such a blessing to our church, and we will miss him greatly.
Laura and family: Bill taught both David and I things about pastoring that no one else could. He taught us the importance of caring deeply for our people. He taught us that showing up always matters, and he taught us the power of the sacrament. We love you and are praying for you! Brandi Horton
Such a Joyous Man!! We feel lucky to have known him! So much love and prayers to Laura and the family!
Stephanie and Brad Tucker
It’s hard to put into words what Rev. Bill Denham meant to me. I still don’t think I’ve fully processed the fact that someone so larger than life is no longer walking this Earth. Bill knew how to make every, single person he met feel special by remembering specific details about hundreds and hundreds of congregants. For so many years, receiving a phone call on my birthday from him was such a high point, particularly when I was away from my family at school or not feeling as excited as I should be about a day that is supposed to be celebratory. I still haven’t quite been able to bring myself to listen to those voicemails yet, but I know when the time’s right they’ll be there to lift my spirits.
Once I joined staff, I had the immense pleasure of getting to know Bill on a more personal level, witnessing firsthand the marvelous work he was doing for God’s kingdom. Last summer particularly brought us close, as I was given the opportunity to do “storytelling” at each worship service. I will forever cherish those moments lined up with him outside the Sanctuary, chatting about our families, the goings on at church, etc. It was an elite club to run with, and for someone like me who was not a clergy member, Bill never made me feel out of place. In fact, he went above and beyond to ensure I knew just how much I belonged. Each morning before the 8:30 service, I’d walk up (briskly because I was usually running late…), and he’d shout across the hallway, “Hey beautiful!” I would grin and take my place alongside these pastors whom I’d looked up to my whole life, ready to face whatever nerves or insecurities the morning may have brought.
I think what captures the character of Bill most was his way with words. This sermon in particular was preached during my storytelling tenure, and I remember the day so vividly. Before we walked in, Bill pulled Rev. Thomas Harper and I aside and asked for us to pray for him because he was nervous about speaking in front of all these people. Here was a man whom I’d never seen flinch, never be anything but vivacious and bold and confident, asking for a prayer. I have thought about this moment so often, even before Bill passed, because it was such an extraordinary expression of humility…a true testament to his deeply intimate relationship with Jesus. Bill then went on to deliver such a powerful and relatable message, making it all look so effortlessly eloquent. I would encourage everyone to watch the full sermon, which can be found here: https://my.stlukesmethodist.org/page/461?Item=437
I hope Bill knows how loved he was. I feel grateful St. Luke’s was able to give him a big, loud, long car parade as his retirement send-off in June. But wow, do I wish we’d all gotten a little more time with a man who made life our lives so much brighter. Thank you, God, for Rev. Bill Denham. May we all be that much more generous, that much kinder, that much more filled with the Holy Spirit because we know Bill is always on our side, now working from Heaven.
The Dulaney family misses Bill so much. He cared for our family in so many ways. We cherish our memories of him. It is an honor for the five of us to share in the service today. Prayers for the entire Denham and St. Luke’s family.
We loved loved loved Bill! Thank you Laura and kids for sharing him with us at St. Luke’s.
Laura
We are holding you and your family close. We love you and we loved Bill. He was the most genuine man I ever knew.
Jane and Charles Szalkowski
To me, Bill epitomized everything that the church institution should be. Truly a wonderful pastor and friend.
Laura and kids, we grieve for you and love you,
Robert, Elizabeth, and Emerson
Dear Laura and all the Denham family, Bill was a true treasure on earth. Words are hard to describe the exuberant joy and light that he gave so freely to everyone. As a child of God, Bill shared His beautiful image through his outpouring love and grace to all. My life is and forever will be more beautiful from knowing Bill and the entire Denham family.
I talked to my co-workers about taking some time this morning to attend the service, and when I explained who the service was for I said, “A friend of mine passed away suddenly.” That’s exactly how he felt to me–a friend. Rest in peace, Bill. Praying for your family.
Dear Laura and Denham family, Bill was such a blessing in the short time I got to serve in ministry with him. When I was a brand new pastor, he took me under his wing and encouraged me at a time when I really needed it. He taught me more about pastoral care than I ever learned in seminary. Truly, the love of God radiated from his heart. May that same love of God sustain you through this loss. I give thanks for his life and witness.
Laura, our prayers are with you and your family. Reverend Denham’s smile and presence will be missed by all.
We joined St Luke’s about 5 months before Bill came. We always looked forward to seeing Him on Sunday mornings. His smile and warm welcome are missed. Laura and his family are in our prayers.
Laura, It was such a blessing to know Bill. We loved having you and Bill visit Gethsemane Campus. The first birthday call was a lovely surprise, then I anticipated the following yearly call.
Celebrating the love and light that Bill brought everywhere he went.
Dear Brother Jim.
Thank you for your words today. The story you told of John the Baptist is wonderful. It is a powerful message of comfort and benediction. Traveling Mercies.
Sister Laura and Family, Brother Bill is with Jesus and having a grand time. Holy Spirit is ever present with us providing comfort and peace. God bless and keep you.
What a lovely , lovely man. He was a gift to so many!
Rev. Bill Denham…
Where do I even begin? He was always a spark of joy to talk too. He and I have had many memories over the years.
I remember the first day i met him him. It was actually his first sunday, he had come to sit in and listen to us Pure Sounders before we sang that 8:30. He had enjoyed listening to us so much he almost didnt leave in time to get ready.to walk down the aisle. He had left his folder and bible. Had to give chase, and ran to give them to him. He told me Thanks so much young man whats your name? He said so genuinely and with so much warmth. Could tell he was going to be awesome from then onward. Another great memory is when one sunday my senior year i was supposed to leave during communion. (Leaving on the outswing in the old sanctuary) Bill had given a sermon about the youth of the church being the future of the church. Lo and behold he says Im gonna have my friend Peyton Gibner help me with communion. So of course i did. Its one of my favorite memories with him. Man oh man was he special. Another fond time with him was being with him before some event. I forgot exactly what now but he asked me to pray for him. I am honoured he asked me. Ill keep prayin you sir. From then now and forever on. Lastly the Sunday when before he prayed he asked the congregation to acknowledge how star wars 7 was a good movie. Man made me almost lose it from filming on the balcony.
Its so hard to believe we talked just about a week ago on thanksgiving. I am thankful for you, you kind kind man.
Im so happy we were able to converse so recently.
I will never forget his warmth, his giant smile, his welcoming demeanour, and so much more. I am thankful for all the memories.
I will pray for his family and thank god that such an amazing Blessing of a man was my friend.
Its not goodbye sir, its see you later.
Much love to you Bill. Now and forever
Dearest Laura, We are celebrating Bill’s life virtually this morning, as we do so many things these days. We look forward to the day that we can hug you in person and cry and laugh together as we remember Bill. We miss him so much. We love you and grieve with you.
Betty & Bob Geary
I was blessed to be loved by Bill Denham. He was my seminary buddy, a confidante and encourager. We stayed in touch for over 20 years as friends. When I became his DS and he knew how much I missed the local church, he looked me in the eye and said with passion, “Andy you’re a pastor, not a DS.” As I returned to the local church, I thought of those words that always impacted me. I will miss you, Bill Denham!
Dearest Laura and family, Bill will always be in my heart as the best example of love and caring for others. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Martha, and the rest of your family.
Celebrating Bill’s life this morning virtually and praying for you, Laura and your family! Bill was a special friend and pastor. Love to you
Laura and family,
What a beautiful and heartfelt service. Young Jim, Handsome Jim, and Tom described many facets of Bill but only scratched the surface of the depth of love that we all feel for who he was and is. Even though we watched remotely, Patrice and I felt that we were there with you. God bless you and your wonderful family.
In Christ,
Patrice and Richard
Laura, I am watching Bill’s Memorial Service online. I SO wish I could be with you in person. I loved your husband as a brother and friend. The news of his death brought me to tears. I will miss him so much, especially our “private pastoral lunches” where we solved most all the problems of the church. Bill was the real deal. We will see him again in heaven. Know you and your family are in my prayers daily.
From a letter sent to Laura:
I am writing to let you know had devastated I am about wonderful husband Bill’s passing. For many years I was always drawn to Bill’s enthusiastic and kind personality from afar, never really having had any personal interaction with him other than an occasional communion service. Then, in May 2019, I was admitted to Methodist Hospital to await a heart transplant that did not happen until November. Bill visited me at Methodist about 25 times between June and December, once and sometimes twice every week when he was in town.
Bill would always come in my room with a big smile and an enthusiastic hello. He would not only pray with me, but always stay and talk for a while, sometimes for 20 minutes, about anything and everything, from God, Jesus and heaven to our families, our trips, and our shared hometown of Bellaire. We always laughed together and had such a good time. I remember him walking through the halls of Methodist in his Uncle Sam suit for the 4th of July and carrying his cardboard turkey at Thanksgiving.
He was so gifted at raising people’s spirits, encouraging our love of God, and making us feel loved. He was such a blessing to me and I’m sure to the all of the other St. Luke’s patients he visited, and in fact, not only St. Luke’s patients, because I know he was also called to minister to another patient I was friendly with on the CICU floor who was also a Methodist but lived in Louisiana.
I am so very sorry for your and your children’s and grandchildren’s loss of Bill at this time in his life when I know you all were looking forward to having his undivided attention. He was an amazing minister, person and friend, and I loved him dearly. Please know that I, along with my family, are praying for you and your family and hoping that the love of all those whose lives you and Bill have touched eases your grief at least a tiny bit.
God Bless You.
A wonderful service for a man who deserved it, and . . . I’m sure was listening!
What a lovely service! Such fond memories recounted by those who love Bill & Laura.
We were pleased to be able to be present via live stream. Such an outpouring of love for Bill in response for the love he shared with St. Luke’s.
Bill’s memory will always be with us ! His Birthday Calls were the best ! Bill and Laura were friends and family Peggy and I love you both. Rest In Peace Bill. And may peace and healing be with Laura and the Denham family ! We love you and there’s nothing you ca do about it ! IWe will always think of Bill on our Birtdays !
A beautiful memorial service for a generously kind and loving man. As mentioned in Brother Jim’s eulogy, he was a light for the church and to all who knew him. May God continue to bless Laura and her family. May his memory be eternal.
Larry and I watched the livestream in tears and laughter (but failed to register our attendance as good Methodists). We will miss him so much. Peace to all of you.
Much love and many thanks to the Denham family for sharing Bill with all of us.
Mary and Jim Henderson
We thank God for Bill. He ministered to our family in hard times. We lost my brother in-law,, mother, and sister three years in a row. He did the service for my mom and sister. My sister suffered from MS and died in hospice from it. We had to make hard choices and he helped us in many ways. As stated earlier he helped our daughter Laura Yoakum when she was in the hospital for 4 months in a difficult pregnancy. He was so overjoyed to meet and baptize our miracle twins Charlotte and Jamie. We thank the family and St. Luke’s fir bringing us this special angel.
Laura and Denham Family: Bill Denham was just the best and brightest of men we have ever known. His cheerful, happy demeanor each and every Sunday was one of the highlights of church of which we looked forward to and was a big reason why we became members @ SL. He was a kind, thoughtful man who knew how to say the right things with love and complete understanding, and care for each person he came into contact. He gave us wonderful advice when we needed it. We had the privilege of having dinner w/him and Laura back in September and what a fun evening we had! He entertained us with hilarious stories. He was quite simply, the light of God on earth. We were so upset to hear of his passing. We will miss him so much, as will our grown children. We look forward to seeing him in our Eternal home! May God bless the entire Denham family, and bring you His peace and comfort always.
We celebrate Bill’s life! He was so full of joy and love. We could feel his love just being in his presence. Thank you for sharing Bill with us at St. Luke’s. When I think about Bill, I remember what he always said, “I love you and there’s nothing you can do about it!” I also remember his saying in a memorial service he held. Everyone grieves differently and that’s okay. We are now grieving, but know that Bill is home with Jesus. He was such a sweet, caring man. We will never forget.
Laura, You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Bill was loved by many and will be missed. His visits to me in the hospital brought me peace and comfort. I will be forever grateful for those visits. At the time, I was not even a member of St. Luke’s. Bill’s joy and kindness had an immeasurable impact on my faith journey leading me to join St. Luke’s. He changed my life forever.
Bill was such a dear friend I worked the reception desk on Monday morning after I retired each morning he wouldcome and thank me for being their and we had such wonderful chats and each Monday I waited for him to come out to greet me what a wonderful treasure his caring about me I will miss him so much my thoughts and prayers are with you Laura and family ken
What a blessing Bill was to us and so many others. We will miss his warm smile and those birthday messages! Our prayers are with his family and all that love him.
Mrs. Denham, Will, Martha, and Jim,
Kristi and I are so sorry to hear of Rev. Denham’s passing. I had the pleasure of knowing the Denham’s for over 40 years. In fact Will is still my best friend to this day. Mr. Denham had the unique quality of making people smile. His charisma, warm caring spirit meant so much to so many. It was always fun to get the birthday call because I felt like I was going back in time and he always had a story that made me laugh. I’ll miss that.
Mere words are inadequate to express my great sadness at the sudden passing of our pastor, my friend and mentor Rev. Bill Denham. My sincere condolences to his family, wife Laura, children, grandchildren, brothers and sisters, and my hope is that you feel just how much he was loved for his caring, kindness and compassion.
Dear Laura, I feel very blessed to have known and worked with Bill. We are all so fortunate that God saw fit to bring the Denhams to St. Luke’s! I have missed you both since Bill retired because I so enjoyed your collective, wonderful sense of humor. What a delight! A few years back, I was going through a dark time. On more than a few occasions, Bill counseled with me, helped me retain perspective, and prayed with me. But honestly, most importantly to me, he made me laugh during a time when I seldom found anything to even smile about. Bill was truly a treasure. Laura, keeping you and your family in my prayers.
A beautiful service full of love, grace and comfort for us all.
Bill’s joy, light and love of God illuminated all who met him. His love and caring warmed my heart and everyone at St. Luke’s and beyond. He will be greatly missed and deeply cherished in memory. I pray that Laura and their family will find comfort in knowing how loved and appreciated Bill was and will always be by so many people he ministered to at the church. Deepest condolences to all who knew and loved the Rev. Bill Denham.
Janet Berzins
I am so Blessed to have known Bill. Through Greifshare class and my illness, he was there. He knew everyone’s needs, gave healing words, and sometimes a handshake, always a hug.
Like many others, I feel like I had a special relationship with Bill. He led a Men’s Life group that was one of the highlights of my life. We had many meaningful conversations in that group and Bill and I had a significant relationship outside the group also. I loved him and I miss him already.
As dear friends of Bill’s sister Priscilla, we want to express our sympathy to the entire family and especially to Priscilla. She often talked about Bill and how much she looked up to him and relied on his wisdom and guidance. After watching today’s beautiful celebration of his life, we only wish we could have known him in person.
Blessings and love, Claude & Donna Dencler
Dear Laura and Family,
Andy and I can’t express how much Bill meant to us. He was a remarkable man and we will miss him.
Bill was the first person that visited me in the hospital after surgery to remove a brain tumor. I’ll never forget hearing his voice saying ” Hi, I’m Bill Denham from St. Lukes”. Bill’s birthday calls were precious too. They always put smiles on our faces. He so very joyful.
Thank you for sharing Bill with us. We will strive to paying his love forward. God bless you.
Sincerely,
Darlene and Andy Beaubien
To our precious friend, Laura, and her wonderful family, we love you all very much, and you know that we so loved and cared for your amazing husband and father. Today’s service was remarkable, a beautiful and fitting way to remember and honor our dear friend, Bill, whom we’ve known for over forty-five years, since our happy days in Beaumont, and we will always cherish those very special memories. Thank you, St. Luke’s, for ministering to us by allowing Bill’s many friends and loved ones to view this memorable service for our Bill.
Bill Denham will always have a place in my heart! How blessed we were at St Luke’s to have the dynamic duo of Bill & Laura come into our lives! Was it only 8 years?! I feel as if I have known and loved you all of my life! What a loss we all feel at this moment. I had planned to attend the service today in person, but because I go to see my 3 mo. old grandson every 2-3 days, I decided social distancing at my own computer was a better option. I’m so grateful to the St. Luke’s staff for such a good job with the Live Stream. Being able to see both Jim’s and hear their homily’s clearly was such a blessing. What a lovely family Bill had! To all of you, please know I am praying to God that he will hold you even closer during this difficult time, and that the precious memories of Bill will help fill the hole in your heart.
I am deeply saddened over the passing of Rev. Denham. My heart and prayers go out to his family. He was so full of joy…and he shared that joy with everyone he came into contact with. His laughter was simply infectious. Rev. Denham conducted our marriage ceremony and I often look back at the pictures we have with him. I think about the discussions we had that day and leading up to it. I remember our pre-marriage counseling sessions and the incredible love he described that he had for his wife, Laura. I can still remember sitting in his office and the way he would just glow when he spoke about her. Their love for one another was such an aspirational example. His son Will was my classmate in law school. Rev. Denham and I would have many discussions about Will and his career and how incredibly proud he was of Will. I looked forward to his birthday call every year. These took on a special meaning after my wife and I got married, and we loved to share where and how we were spending my special day. He would tell us about his travels back to Alabama and all about his grand children. It sounds so selfish, but I would do anything to be able to shake his hand again, as we did routinely when we would exit the sanctuary on Sundays. I miss him. I wish the world was filled with more Bill Denhams – because if it was, it would surely be a kinder, gentler, more caring place.
Brenda and I will miss Bill.. St. Luke’s will miss Bill. Everyone who knew Bill will miss that big warm smile. Such a nice man! He will be hard to replace.
Bill’s hospital visits, and phone calls were the best! We will always cherish his memory from the wooden cross that he brought to us in the hospital!!! Our deepest sympathies to you Laura. Much love from Jim Sam and Margie Camp.
Dear Laura and family,
Bill was such a special person to everyone he met. When I think of him, it reminds me of what it is to be joyful. I believe everyone Bill met knew something great about all of you, he loved to share pictures and stories of his family.
I always knew on Sunday morning he would stop by the pew to greet everyone and every birthday I would receive a call.
My fondest memories were when he met someone new at church and he would either bring them over and introduce them or tell us their name, something about them and ask that we introduce ourselves to them and welcome them.
We will all miss Bill. I pray his memories give you strength. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Over the years, Kelton and I had several dinners with Bill and Laura, however our last Bill and Laura Denham dinner with them was on October 30 , as Laura called it, Halloween Eve, at their home a few blocks away from us in Bellaire. What a fun evening we had, just as we always had whenever we were in their presence. Laura of course the ever gracious hostess, served a delicious chicken tortilla soup that Kelton just had to have seconds of. The stories Bill told were hysterical. He was so animated and had such wit! His effervescent smile and the twinkle in his eye kept us laughing and totally engaged with his story. And Laura’s ever funny sense of humor complimented their story telling. They were a true team! When our 8 year old grand daughter was unable to be present to receive her 3rd grade Bible, Bill arranged to have all of our family in his office for prayers and to present her Bible to her. On my birthday, Bill called to let me know it was a surprise but he saw Kelton at the dealership and I was getting a brand new Lexus! What a sense of humor! We thank God everyday for the life of this amazing, incredible, unselfish, gracious, kind, thoughtful and loving man who touched our hearts and souls and taught us how to care for others by his example. He has left an incredible legacy of love for his dear Laura, his children, grand children, brothers, sisters, family and friends. We will cherish our time with him always!
Dear Laura,
Bill was a faithful and fruitful pastor who lived his faith daily. We felt God’s love in tangible ways because of Bill’s generous smiles and graciousness. He let the light of Christ shine through him.
We are all better because of him.
Our prayers are with you and your family as you grieve his passing. May God comfort you as we give thanks for this one who lived and loved so well.
The service was a beautiful reminder of all that made Bill one of the warmest, friendliest, Christ-centered men I have had the pleasure to know. He helped me through my own time of grief after losing my first husband at a young age, and I will never forget the comforting words he spoke to me. When I came on staff at St. Luke’s his daily greeting, laughter, and infectious presence would always brighten my day. Later, as my sons began to serve as acolytes, he was a smiling, encouraging presence in their lives as well on Sunday mornings – always saying hello, asking how they were doing, and keeping up with their activities and interests. Once when my, husband, Jeff, wrote a testimonial for the Sunday bulletin (coinciding with Father’s Day) talking about our combined families, our late spouses, and his own father, Bill sent one of the warmest notes we have received asking to meet Jeff’s father should he ever come in town, as he wanted to meet the man who raised such a great son. When Jeff’s parents did come in town and attended a worship service, Bill’s genuine delight and interest in getting to know Jeff’s father was so touching – and so very Bill. He will be greatly missed by all of us, and your family remains in our thoughts and prayers.
Dear Laura, how sorry I am to have forgotten the memorial service for Bill. It seems that I forget a lot these days. But when I was able to attend church, I remember Bill’s warm and smiling greetings. I also remember the occasions when you would occasionally sit with Harry Dreher and me. Both Bill’s greeting and your kindness continues to be appreciated. How sorry I am of your and your family’s loss. Sincerely
Laura and family,
Bill radiated joy and always made us feel special. The memories of his truly heart-felt prayers, his greetings on Sunday mornings, and the love he exuded will be cherished. He planted a seed in us and challenged us to let it grow, and pass it one to others.
Our prayers are with you,
Leendert and Peggy Keus
Dear Laura and family,
Our hearts ache with you as we join you in grief. Laura
you and Bill were a wonderful team. You served God well and with such joy!
Bill always made us feel special and as I’ve read some of the comments I realized he made everyone feel special. We got to know Bill from his many hospital visit s when my mother was at MDANDERSON. He always lifted our spirits with his sense of humor and a beautiful prayer. My mother was from College Station and had been the administrative assistant for 30 years at First Presbyterian church in Bryan. Bill took her under his wing. I remember Bill asking Mom, whose prayers do you think God answers first…the Presbyterians or the Methodist? Mom snapped back, the Presbyterians of course. Bill responded, well I’ll just keep throwing them up there. We all had a good laugh.
Bill generously showed God’s love. My mother had an early surgery scheduled and Bill was there at 5:30 am to offer support and a calming prayer. Just before it was time for the surgery , the doctor came by and said mom’s blood work didn’t look right and he thought we should postpone the amputation for a week. After being with us so early in the morning,I didn’t expect to see Bill the next week, but there he was with his big beautiful smile and calming words. Bill was the heart of St.Luke’s.
We’re sending you a virtual hug in these COVID days. I wish there was more we could do to ease your pain.
In love and sympathy,
Kathy and Johnny McClellan
How fortunate we were to have Bill as one of our pastors. That wonderful smile will shine through the ages. His birthday calls were such a blessing. I was blessed with several of his hospital visits prior to surgery and he brought such a peace and calm into my room. He definitely left a presence in St. Luke’s that will never be forgotten. My love to you Laura, the kids and grandkids.
Our hearts are broken. Bill’s smile and cheerful countenance live on in our hearts. He is sorely missed. Thank you to his family for sharing him with us all these years.
What a beautiful Memorial Service for Bill today. Thank you St. Luke’s for live-streaming it. He was such a special man. I will never forget his caring friendship, wonderful smile, and beautiful prayers on Sunday morning. What a blessing he was to St. Luke’s, his family, and friends. Elaine Herring
Laura and family, you are in our prayers. Bill was such a blessing to all who encountered him. As with so many others, I looked forward to my birthday calls. I did have one opportunity to see the other side of those calls and it made a big impression on me. A few years ago I was a delegate to Annual Conference when we were meeting at The Woodlands UMC. During a break, I happened upon Bill in a stairwell with his cellphone in his hand, busily making his birthday calls. He stopped for a moment to speak to me, with a big smile of course, and showed me his long list of calls for day–I think he was only about halfway through, but I knew he would find the time to finish and that all those people would feel blessed and special.
We have enjoyed all of Pastor Bill and Laura’s ministry to us. His birthday phone calls were so special and appreciated. We especially enjoyed hearing them both speak to our Sunday School class at Gethsemane, women’s groups, as well as being welcomed into their home. What a loss for all of us! Our prayers are with Laura and the rest of his family.
Laura and family, you have been and continue to be in our family’s prayers-all sharing in the loss of Bill. We had an instant connection with Bill upon his arrival at St. Luke’s, as you and Bill were members of the church in Beaumont where Derek and I married. So many from Beaumont told us how they loved you both and we were soon to have the same feelings. We loved watching and visiting with him prior to church, getting the famous birthday calls, and hearing the many ones he made each day when I was a SLUMC volunteer with a desk outside his office, leaving his joyous wishes. His deeper endearment to our family came during many days at Methodist Hospital when Bill somehow knew we were there with our precious Elizabeth, who had a brain tumor. His visits took us away to much better thoughts and his warm and wonderful stories diverted our hours of waiting to better times and even chuckles provided by some funny happenings. Before we knew it, hours of long days had passed and Bill had comforted us without our even realizing it, until later. He brought light and love into a dark time for all our family and his prayers, around Elizabeth, with joined hands, helped sustain us through uncertain, agonizing times. We have a picture in our home of Bill and our grandson, John Henry Stiver, taken at St. Luke’s Day School, when Bill was dressed up as Santa. John Henry’s smile was one showing how so many felt in Bill’s presence: loved and in the presence of a servant who truly loved the Lord and serving Him. We love you. too, Laura .
Pastor Bill will always hold a special place in our families heart. He married my husband and I in the little chapel at St. Lukes seven years ago this coming January. He has called me every year on my birthday to leave me a message and say hello. I still can’t believe it. I am thinking of you and your family. He was an amazing and inspiring man. Much love to you.
Worship hasn’t felt right at St Lukes with the loss of Rev Denham. While Bill probably wouldn’t know me or my family, we’ve only been regulars for four years, Bill was a fixture of our Sunday experience. That hard day is going to come again, when the ushers can resume their old duties, and someone else will instruct us to stand to the Old 100th for the doxology. Today, I dread that moment. For this music has always been the harbinger of that big, bright welcoming grin, cueing us to rise from our seats. It’s Bill. With outstretched arms! Then I’ll be saddened to realize, he’s now in my minds eye. The solace is, he is still there. Only now his arms can stretch well over and around the entire sanctuary, to hold us all.
Our thoughts are with Bill’s family, and everyone in his church family who loves him so. We send prayers of healing during this time of pain and loss.
Laura, Martha, and family, what a beautiful service of remembrance for such a warm, wonderful man of God. Serving on teams with him was such a blessing. I pray the memory of his bright light will remind us all to pass it on. Sending prayers for comfort and support. May God send you the right people at the right time when you need them.
Dear Laura,
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Bill was such a special man and we will all miss him so very much. We loved his birthday calls and the smile he always put on our faces when we saw him. We were especially thankful for the times he came to the hospital to pray with us when our daughter was at MD Anderson. And she is better now! We know you will have a great hole in your heart with Bill’s loss. We hope the memories you made together will bring you laughter and joy in the weeks and months ahead. Love, Kim and Reid Wilson
We will certainly miss Reverend Bill. He was so positive and we will miss his radiant smile. We are so glad that he took on the task of marrying us. His prenuptial counseling was helpful and entertaining, as well. We were touched by the funeral service and also by the amount of people who attended via webcast. We will miss his cheery phone calls on our birthdays next year.
Hi Laura,
Witnessing your and Bill’s marriage, faith, humor and love for others changed Austin and I for the better. Bill lit up a room when he walked in with that contagious smile. His kindness and warmth has touched so many, and I can truly say I am a better person because of the Denham’s leadership and example. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Bill Denham lit up lives with his joy in Christ and his caring touch with everyone he met. I am sure I will never meet another person in my life who can connect with people like Bill did. His love for each person he met was a gift from God. I suspect there was a great celebration when he arrived in heaven! We are all going to miss him, but we must remember how much he gave to each of us.
Bill was a great example to us all on how to live joyously. When I feel blue or just unenthusiastic, I think of him laughing in the narthex as we waited to proceed into service. Bill was a gift to us all. I am so lucky to have known him.
I had the wonderful privilege and blessing to have worked alongside Bill Denham for 8 years in Caring Ministries at St. Luke’s. He was a great boss and a dear friend who taught me so much about doing ministry and laughing more. I miss him and am praying for Laura and all of the family.
We adored Rev. Bill. He always had a smile on his face and a friendly word for all. I looked forward to his cheerful phone call every year on my birthday. He must have spent so much of his time making those calls to every member of our church – I hope he knew how meaningful that outreach was! His presence at St. Luke’s will be greatly missed.
Laura and Bill were our great center point. Laura has become a member of our covenant class. Bill was a our leader and mentor. He attended and led Nancy’s Lamar H.S. Class with his moral center. Laura attended our class on occasion and was always a contributing member with her comments. Bill’s birthday calls were great and our class decided to all call him on His birthday and tweek him with the same “new lexus” calls he gave us. What a great man and we will all miss him very much. The memorial service was fantastic and I hope all we be able to see it.
Love to Laura and the family.
Nancy and Bill Cobb
Beautiful service. Wish we could have been there in person. I imagine that without COVID, the Astrodome would not have held those wanting to attend.
We will miss Bill so much and pray for peace and hope for Laura and family.
Laura- We love you so much and pray these comments will lift your spirit. Bill was so dearly loved by our community as evidenced by the volume of messages.I will always be grateful for the encouragement he was in my life. I pray I was that for him, too. You are the BEST and we will stay in touch. May God hold you close this Christmas and always.
Laura, you and Bill opened your home and hearts to St. Luke’s. You made a large church seem very small. Bill made each of us feel like we were the most important person he knew, and we are forever grateful. We grieve with you and love you. Sally Penning
The birthday phone call was something I always enjoyed and was such a nice thing to do. Bill did not know me, but his warm, cheerful tone always made it seem like we were best buddies. He must have made thousands of these calls over the years, never really knowing if there was an impact or if it was worth the time and effort which is truly amazing. After reading all of these comments, he obviously had a huge, positive impact on so many lives.
Laura, Will, Jim, Martha,
When Laura called me on the 15th of December and informed me of Bill’s passing I was stunned and it took a few days for me to process this fact that I didn’t want to believe. From January 1969 when I became Bill’s roommate at the 46th Medical Battalion in Erlangen, Germany until November of 2020 when Pam and I received the wonderful letter from Bill acknowledging our 50th wedding anniversary, we have shared many delightful experiences that we will always treasure. Probably one of the most memorable events was Bill’s graduation from Perkins School of Theology. I will never forget the telephone conversation with Bill a few years prior to this graduation where we discussed that Bill was meant for the ministry. He had the DNA, the skill set and life experiences to be a true servant of the Lord.
Our families loved the vacation together at the Lake of the Ozarks, Bill performing his first wedding, our daughter Sarah Elizabeth, visiting Bill and Laura in Beaumont several times and in Houston. I will always remember the many serious discussions we had over the years about Vietnam, Art, History, religion, our children and their journey through life.
Memories is what Bill left us with. What a gift!